My cousin is getting married and is having a time of day theme bridal shower. I was given the time of 8PM. I have to come up with a gift for something you would use during that time of day. She is a prude so lingerie and such is not an option.

The only thing I could think of was a pair of nice pillowcases and or sheet set, so I'm hoping someone else can help me get the creativity flowing and think of a fun gift to put together that won't embarrass her. So what else could it get for an 8PM gift?

I frequently give apology goblets. I buy goblets or stemmed glassware at thrift stores and yard sales, add pretty ribbons, and a fancy box, with this saying:

http://www.craftsayings.com/projects/sentimental/apology_goblet/index.shtml

This is a Forgiveness/Apology Goblet.
May it be the least used gift you get.
As life goes on, small disagreements occur,
But don't let them fester and dig like a bur.

It doesn't matter who was right or wrong.
The hurt will take its toll before very long.
Fill this goblet with any drink to share
And tell each other how much you care!

Count your blessings and share your love,
Taking an example from the Lord above.
He said at the Last Supper among raised tins,
"This cup is shed for the remission of sins."

Drink up and toss the hurt aside.
Let laughter and happiness once more abide.
And you'll find another good thing too. . .
Making up is fun to do!

Other 8 PM ideas:

gift certificates for movie rental

basket of wine (or sparkling cider), glasses, etc.

board games

bath items - for bubble baths, towels, candles, etc.

What about a craft/hobbie item...

Knitting needles, a how too booklet and some yarn
Scrapbook items
Recipe organizer with menus and grocery lists
Books (how to.. or fiction)
DVD with popcorn and popcorn bowls
Netflix gift certificate

his and hers PJs ( i would buy some cheap ones and embroider or iron on embroider initials)
popcorn and movie snacks and and romantic movie or a romantic comedy like my best friends wedding (it was on saturday)