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mmy2grls 12-27-2007, 11:28 PM I work at home so internet and phone is vital for me to work. My internet bill slipped my mind until they shut it off tonight. I get paid Jan 1 and will take care of it then. I called the internet place and made payment arrangements so they turned it back on. I have 3 full days left to work for my Jan 1 check. I have other bills to catch up on or stay current plus I need to make extra for gas money to take my daughter to and from school.
The amount I need to make in the next 3 days is reasonable but I have to work while my kids are quiet which sometimes can be a challenge.
Winter is a hard time for me bill wise and i'm just keeping it together until tax time. Pleas ekeep me in your thoughts if you can.
Missy 12-27-2007, 11:30 PM I wish you the best. I bet you can do it. :hugz:
if you don't mind me asking, what do you do with your work at home? :) Is it something that you can branch off of and take on more to help bulk up the bank account?
catzz64 12-28-2007, 02:11 AM You are in my prayers. I used to do medical transcription from home with 2 kids at home and it wasn't easy! We do the best we can and somehow we always make it.
BTW...your little girls are precious ;)
monkeymia 12-28-2007, 03:59 AM I'll keep you in my thoughts.
mmy2grls 12-28-2007, 05:33 AM I wish you the best. I bet you can do it. :hugz:
if you don't mind me asking, what do you do with your work at home? :) Is it something that you can branch off of and take on more to help bulk up the bank account?
I work for http://apply.westathome.com/
and www.liveops.com
I do answer the phone at home, customer service, infomercials, etc
Only requirement is high speed internet and a phone
I can make as much as I can work. I've put in 6 hours so far tonight and i'm halfway to what I needed. I just hope my kids sleep in some so I can get more sleep.
favesis37 12-28-2007, 07:29 AM good luck, i have never heard of them, do they pay well? that might be something i would wan tto do, do you get the chance to get insurance?
ilovechocolate 12-28-2007, 08:04 AM Good luck and keep us posted.
Its_Donna 12-28-2007, 08:34 AM You're all in my prayers and I'm sending you "Make lots of money to pay the Bills" thoughts. Hang in there and remember that you're not alone.
FrugalMomof3 12-28-2007, 09:10 AM I am sending good thoughts your way :hugz:
Lora88 12-28-2007, 09:38 AM your in my thoughts hang in there life gets easier when you least expect it
Mom23boys 12-28-2007, 11:51 AM :hugz: and prayers are being sent your way. I bet you can do it!
oct2667us 12-28-2007, 02:59 PM :thumb::thumb: good luck...
mmy2grls 12-28-2007, 03:53 PM I'm about there woohoo
toile 12-28-2007, 04:00 PM MMY you can do it girl!
:D
Sounds like an awesome job too by the way!!!!
What a good mommy you are to work so hard for your beautiful girls.
:grouphug2
dolphin 12-28-2007, 06:00 PM You can do it!!!!:applause: I've heard great things about the company you work for. I have 2 friends working for them now and they love it. Affordable high speed internet isn't available for my area yet but I keep hoping!
larabelle 12-28-2007, 08:19 PM Prayers are going up for you!!:tay:
shoiji 12-28-2007, 08:28 PM Good for you! Sounds as if you have everything under control.
Darlene 12-29-2007, 08:16 AM Hang in & hang on! :thumb:
cab54 12-29-2007, 11:55 AM Prayers and good thoughts coming your way.:vibes:
mmy2grls 12-29-2007, 12:44 PM Thank you for the encouragement! I hate to be under pressure like this and my kids aren't cooperating with me this week but I still managed to make what I need plus I work today and tomorrow.
I think I may have the extra to fill up my gas tank on my car completely full and buy plenty of groceries.
bumplett 12-29-2007, 01:00 PM that's great! sending more $$ vibes your way. :D
my4littlebuffaloes 12-29-2007, 01:25 PM That has to be so hard trying to keep little ones quiet while you work. Good luck!
mmy2grls 01-02-2008, 01:43 AM I did make what I needed. I was worried because my kids just weren't cooperating but I made it. And I did make extra so I can finally fill my gas tank up completely, I get excited over little things lol
mommy4ever 01-02-2008, 11:07 AM How difficult!!
Do you qualify for WIC or other aid? that would help some, would it not?
I'm going to make an observation based on your posts I've read. You admitted to only working enough to pay the bills, you ease up and then rush to make it. Can you budget your time differently? So that you are working consistently through out the month, and not have to put so much pressure on yourself? And potentially allow you to make a little extra to pad the next months to come? Your kids would likely love it if mommy was more rested and less stressed, I know your body would. You sound like such a sweet person, and you're working so hard for your girls.
I'm very much like you, I thrive under pressure too I can do amazing things under a tight deadline, but I've come to realize, with better time management(I still suck at this), I can do an even better job with much less stress, less snappiness at the kids etc. My apologies if I misread your posts, then this just doesn't apply to you.
My personal motto: Work smart, not hard.
mmy2grls 01-02-2008, 11:50 AM How difficult!!
Do you qualify for WIC or other aid? that would help some, would it not?
I'm going to make an observation based on your posts I've read. You admitted to only working enough to pay the bills, you ease up and then rush to make it. Can you budget your time differently? So that you are working consistently through out the month, and not have to put so much pressure on yourself? And potentially allow you to make a little extra to pad the next months to come? Your kids would likely love it if mommy was more rested and less stressed, I know your body would. You sound like such a sweet person, and you're working so hard for your girls.
I'm very much like you, I thrive under pressure too I can do amazing things under a tight deadline, but I've come to realize, with better time management(I still suck at this), I can do an even better job with much less stress, less snappiness at the kids etc. My apologies if I misread your posts, then this just doesn't apply to you.
My personal motto: Work smart, not hard.
You're right, I do need to manage my time better. I do need to make money consistantly without struggling to come up what I need. My kids would be happier if I managed my work/time better. I'm trying to work on this.
I do recieve food benefits. I did recieve WIC for about 3 months last year, I feel it wasn't worth my time because the time I had to spend in the office, taking those classes, trying to control my kids, etc....I could have stayed home and worked for 1-2 hours and made enough money to purchase things that WIC could have provided.
Daisygirl 01-02-2008, 12:01 PM You are in my thoughts too, How lucky you are to be able to work from home! Hang in there!
mommy4ever 01-02-2008, 12:04 PM ((hugs)) GOod for you! Baby steps. You are doing something amazing. You're finding a way to stay home as a single parent. I know only one other person that has managed that. She did childcare. She did really well for her family. She bought a house, kept her son in sports. He's a young man now(16?) he has a job and is proud to help mom out. She recently had a baby(again as a single mom..oops), and told 2 days off and resumed childcare. It's hard for her i"m sure since a working mom here could have a YEAR off, but she won't have to leave her baby. It's not an easy living, it's hard work, but she supports her family and should be proud of that.
YOU are doing the same, you've sought out something that allows you to work around your kiddos and be there. My concern is with pulling all nighters you'll burn out! your babies need you.
You are doing an amazing job though. I know it's not easy for you. And you deserve a pat on the back!!
mmy2grls 01-02-2008, 02:47 PM I'm here because I need advice and such to help me help myself and have a better way of life. I appreciate all the advice thats been given to me.
I had went to my mom and told her I was having problems. She took me grocery shopping and made sure I got the most bang for my buck and she's taken an interested in my spending since my parents are going to help me out if I do need something.
My way wasn't working out so I need guidance on rethinking how I do things :)
kaykwilts 01-02-2008, 04:15 PM I think you'll do better this year becasue you have a teachable spirit. You'll willing to learn and that counts for something. I have a feeling you're not going to be struggling forever. You're on the right path.
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