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patra
01-11-2008, 12:15 PM
we got the letter in the mail tuesday-DH is no longer an employee of the school district.twelve years he put in there, was injured,had surgery reiunjured on the job.....they have always had no care for the well being of their employees we are better off him no longer working there.No lawyer would touch his case, went to several looking to find some sort of justice with no avail.So...time to let ig go and move on.He has been going to school full time through VESID for electrical engineering.i am hopeful for the future.I am working(tho off for another week)as a waitress in a country club.wages and hours are good all may change once DH finds new employment.I love working we will see what we will see.We are on medicaid, have been to a specialist approved by medicaid only to be told they will not cover this doctor.Frustrating.We also cracked the credit cards that had been paid off for christmas and beyond-no discipline-back to square one.I am stable and I am happy, but there are so many things that need to be reviewed and work to be done-just touching base-

patty

Darlene
01-11-2008, 12:22 PM
I'm sorry for your troubles Patty. Hope your Dh is feeling better soon & that he finds the job of his dreams.

AmyBoz
01-11-2008, 12:43 PM
:hugz: Hoping you get it all worked out!

SammiesMammie
01-11-2008, 01:37 PM
Wishing you well..I truly believe that things happen for a reason, and your DH going to school to better your situation is probably the answer! Will be keeping you in my thoughts, as we have been there before..It always gets better!

miss_thrifty
01-11-2008, 01:43 PM
Oh Patra!!! I'm so sorry. hhugggssss
Wishing you all the best, you and hubby.

MomOfTwoGirls
01-11-2008, 01:50 PM
I am so sorry that you all are going through this. How nasty of them to treat him like that.

{{{Hugs}}}

mom2matty
01-11-2008, 02:04 PM
Wishing you well and hoping everything works out for you!!

lwlynch
01-11-2008, 02:50 PM
sending you good wishes. hope everything works out..

kimmer182
01-11-2008, 03:26 PM
I hope things will work out. I always say things happen for a reason, hopefully he will find a better job.

sdrjeolsen
01-11-2008, 03:39 PM
I'm so sorry for your difficulties, sounds like he is better of persuing a different, brighter future anyways. Hope it all works out just the way you want it to.

crdurham
01-11-2008, 04:07 PM
Hope all works out....

emily_hope
01-11-2008, 04:14 PM
Sending you (((HUGS))) and good wishes. I do hope things work out for you.

patra
01-11-2008, 04:50 PM
thank you everyone-feeling a little better about things

C@rol
01-11-2008, 04:53 PM
Keeping positive thoughts for you and
your husband that things will look up soon.

larabelle
01-11-2008, 06:09 PM
Sending up a prayer for you!!!:hat:

Marie78
01-11-2008, 06:17 PM
I wish you well too and I hope everything works out for you both. (Hugs)

jamie79
01-11-2008, 08:13 PM
I am sorry. Hope he finds a new job soon

perSue
01-11-2008, 08:18 PM
:hug2:

Patty,

Here's your optimistic attitude!

I'm sorry to hear about the negativity that has been around you recently, however, it sounds like you seem happier without...

and I love your attitude of letting it happen and moving on.

:)

faw42077
01-11-2008, 09:40 PM
:hug: Wishing you well and hope everything gets better for you!

Daisygirl
01-11-2008, 10:39 PM
Good luck, Patty - hang in there. Sometimes better things are right around the corner.

nodmicks
01-11-2008, 11:51 PM
I'm so sorry Patty! I hope your dh finds a great job soon! I honestly hold by the theory that "when one door closes another opens. It has held true time and time again for us.

Jskell911
01-12-2008, 11:19 AM
I am glad you are able to view it in a positive manner. That will certainly help both of you out in the long run.

Hopefully DH will find a much better position soon.

dolphin
01-12-2008, 02:07 PM
I'm so sorry (((Patty))). I do hope the change in profession will help and I hope that your dh does better phsically. Maybe good that he got away from that school system but I know it is beyond frustrating that someone so dedicated would be treated so badly. When does your dh complete school? Hopeing for a brighter future for you all. Hugs, Carolyn

Mom23boys
01-12-2008, 02:18 PM
Will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.

patra
01-14-2008, 05:56 PM
hey everyone-

thanks for the good thoughts.....J finishes school next semester, he was taking a certificate course at boces and will finish by the summer.hopefully he can get a job with the railroad.I go back to work thursday,and I really cant wait, its been a long two weeks lol.....we have the local library with programs for the children and have them each in something tho I may not be able to go with them since Im working again...Im hoping that when J eventually gets a job that I can join the village parenting center again and get Kira into preschool...hope everyone has a great week-

patty