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    Smile There is hope

    I left Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace book laying on the table in the living room a couple of weeks ago. DH picked it up to read during his "library time." On the way to work this morning (we are carpooling this summer to save on gas, just means I get to work 2 hours early, but I get paid for it so double woohoo) he asked me just what it would take for us to get debt free. We discussed a few things we could do and he seems to be willing to make some changes. We will be having the big "budget meeting" soon. So wish us luck please.

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    So great that he cares!!!! good luck!!
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    I'll right, you got him thinking about it. Way to go and good luck with your talk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrsokdee View Post
    I left Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace book laying on the table in the living room a couple of weeks ago. DH picked it up to read during his "library time." On the way to work this morning (we are carpooling this summer to save on gas, just means I get to work 2 hours early, but I get paid for it so double woohoo) he asked me just what it would take for us to get debt free. We discussed a few things we could do and he seems to be willing to make some changes. We will be having the big "budget meeting" soon. So wish us luck please.
    Ain't it great how it works when its HIS idea??
    If you could kick in the pants the person responsible for your problems, you wouldn't be able to sit for a month.

    Did you know that a 4 year student paying $20,000/year who finances their education graduates with over $103,000 in debt to start? But a student who works and pays cash and takes 6 years to graduate ends with $6,300 in their pocket! So much for "getting a head start by financing!"


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    Great to hear! Good luck with the budget meeting!

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    Oh wow, now that's fantastic! Good luck tonight with your budgeting meeting.
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    That is great! Good luck with the budget meeting! You are on your way to being debt free! WOOHOO!
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    Awesome--good luck! :goodluck:

    (as an aside, do you have 2 sets of twins?)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Greebo View Post
    Ain't it great how it works when its HIS idea??
    I've learned that after almost 16 years of marriage. I just can't always be patient enough to let him think everything is his idea.

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    That's great! It certainly does make things easier when both are on the same financial page so to speak.

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    YAY! Congratulations!

    Sometimes the patience does pay off though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Michelle View Post
    Awesome--good luck! :goodluck:

    (as an aside, do you have 2 sets of twins?)
    I almost forgot to answer your question. No I do not have 2 sets of twins. Mattie is my oldest daughter. Brittany is her friend that needed a place to live. But as far as I'm concerned she is my daughter as well.

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    Such good news, must have been music to your ears!

    with both on you on board it is so much more achieveable
    Debt 1 - Paid in Full (originally $750)
    Debt 2 - Paid in Full (originally $2100)
    Debt 3 - Paid in Full (originally $3500)
    Debt 4 - Paid in Full (originally $4000)
    Debt 5 - Paid in Full (originally $3000)


    FFEF - Fully Funded with 6 months of expenses as of July 2009

    Next Step - House deposit

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    This is wonderful!! Now be sure you do your homework before the meeting and present several ideas of ways you can cut the budget in order to free up money to pay off those debts. The Gurus here on the forum have a million ideas just taylor them to your budget. Good luck!!
    Baby Step #1 Done!
    Baby Step #2 Beginnning debt balance 01/01/08 $78K /Paid in full on 08/06/10
    I'm debt freeeee............ GOD IS SO GOOD!!!
    Baby Step#3 Goal: One year emergency fund began saving Jan 2011 accumulated Aug 2011 YIPPEE!!! God is sooo good to me!!!
    Baby Step #4 Yep currently doing this.
    Baby Step #5 No kids so no need.
    Baby Step #6 Renter.. Working on putting 100% down on a house!!! Currently have 25% saved.
    Baby Step #7 Someday.......

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    turn on dave's radio show in the archives and casually leave it on while you and he are doing chores, or something. that's how i got my dear friend to listen.
    11% gross to retirement
    10% takehome to tithe and offerings
    emergency fund maintained at 3000(works for me)
    credit card debt 7500
    mortgage free
    freedom accounts/sinking funds that ebb and flow
    then live on the rest!

    i am trying something new. LDS church advises savings or debt repayment should be the same as the tithe. 10% each.

    "i create prosperity, abundance, and savings for me and my household"

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