Family in transition

[bluebird728]

We have a whole lot of changes going on. My husband passed away last year, my daughter is about to graduate from high school, my son and I will be moving out of state soon, and my daughter will be on her own and going to college. Obviously there is some tension and stress, but for the most part we are getting along pretty well.

My question is this - with so many changes how I can ease the transitions for all of us and help us to be comfortable sooner with our new lives?

[ellentje]

I really would not know.
((((((((hugs)))))))) in these emotional and stressful times.

[G'MaDebbie]

((((HUGS)))) to you and your kids. My only suggestion would be to sit down and talk out all of your anxieties with one another....have a family meeting, just the 3 of you. Let them know your fears and hopefully they will let you know theirs as well. It is a lot easier to deal with problems when you actually know what they are instead of trying to guess how someone feels. Good luck to you and your family.

[FrugalMomof3]

I agree with having a family counseling type session where everyone get's to talk about how they are feeling and any other issues that might come up. I wish you the best of luck

[FarmerSue]

(((((((HUGS)))))))))))
Oh boy does that bring back memories. Now there are really great ways for communicating, internet, cameras for your computer, phone line bundles, cell phone bundles, texting. Years ago my mom's phone bill was through the roof! I always wanted to call but worried about her worrying. Hmmm, sound complicated? Knowing she can call you and time for anything or nothing at all will be a great start to some BIG changes.
Take care!

[cissylu]

I just want to give you a hug. wish you luck. I know moving is not fun.

[perSue]

keep talking!!!

the fastest way to ease any change is to talk about it openly... your thoughts, your feelings, your fears, etc.

sometimes all we need is a little reassurance "it's gonna be ok".

good luck