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    Default My son needs

    good throughts and anything else you can send him. He's leaving to might for Sacramento to get on a plane and head to HI. e's going to go work with his MIL. She is a flake. His wife asked him to or she would go. The women doesn't beleive in paying her helpers. She's in construction. He own bussiness. She beleived that her oldest son should not do the time for his crime so she is paying a lawyer to keep him out of jail and its working. They need to lock him up and thrw away the key. The crime is child molestion his daughter. She told my son they will be sleeping on the beach....... then told her daughter that they have a house to stay in. They have 2 little girls and are just going to be lost with out him. He spends the most time with them talking to them and playing with them. I just want everything to go alright for him. I don't like the idea that he is going. It just makes me sick.
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    (((hug`s ))) so sorry your son is having to go.

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    I'm sending all the good vibes I have I hope everything goes well!

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    Not what your looking for but some wishes just the same.
    Your son needs to learn to say no, loud and clear. Why is anyone going anywhere to help out? Mil wants to help out a sicko that's her deranged business. Why does your son or his wife feel so obligated? Sounds nuts to me.
    My wish is for the sicko to be in jail(or better yet, dead, jmho), the Mil in therapy and your son & wife home together where they belong. Just my thoughts.
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    Agreeing with Darlene on this one. that things work out for your son & his family
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    send good vibes your sons way
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    Also in agreement w/Darlene. Sending up good thoughts for your son and his family.

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    and prayers going out for your son an his family.

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    Oh I agree. Here is another thing This is a true Mexican family from Mexico. The male children are all that matters. My DDIL worked her butt off to become a US citizen. She has always worked and worked hard. They put her down. Her dad lived (past tense) with them and watched the kids while they worked. the younger brother lived there too. Did nothing but eat. The creepy brother lived on his own. They all expected her to hand over to them 100's of dollars every month. When my son put his foot down and said enough They all moved in with creepy. Mom don't live with them. while they don't live there my son has gotten her son who has Austism to follow rules dress himself and other such things. Along come her dad and mom. Its mean he needs to be happy. so they started to make things worse. Well the dad is moving back to creepys brothers the other brother will stay and help Bree and follow my sons plans for Izac because he see the different. Bree's mother told her to give one of the cars to creepy brother or else well I have that car because mine broke down. Bree has finely stood up and told them no on the car. They have alway ran her down. All of her life yet she is the one that works pays her bills and everyone turns too. She is a good person. I already have plans in motion if he needs to get out of there. My sister and BIL have a friend over there that will help out.......... Oh I so wish he the creepy would become grilfriend to a big guy named bubba.
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    sending good thoughts

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    Fern, I will be sending good thoughts for your son. I agree with Darlene and you - I hope the sicko BIL finds a Big Bubba in his jail cell!!
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