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12-10-2002, 04:46 PM #1Registered User
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I'm so sad
Can I get your opinion? I feel betrayed by my husband. I feel like he cheated on me. My neighbor made advances toward him and he felt flattered. They didn't have sex, just kissed and touched a little. For now I told him to get out for a few days. Did I do the right thing? Our daughter spent the night over there and when he went over there the next morning to pick her up is when it happened. I was sleeping. Somebody help me please.
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12-10-2002, 04:54 PM #2Super Moderator
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Oh Jodi, I am so sorry. {{{HUGS}}}
I think you did the right thing by distancing yourself a bit. That's what I would have done too.
Try this website for help in dealing with this and any other issues you may be having:
http://www.marriagebuilders.com
Please feel free to reach out to us--we're here if you need/want to talk.
Take care!
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12-10-2002, 05:42 PM #3Registered User
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i am so sorry this happened to you!!
i agree with chelle, i think you did the right thing! how did you find out about this?? did he tell you? if she made the advances, why did he let it go as far as a kiss?!?!?!
i'm sorry, that would make me angry!!!
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12-10-2002, 05:55 PM #4Registered User
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oh jodi i am sorry too. I can only offer my opinion and i think anything like that is cheating, i do think that you did the right thing. Good luck dear. we are here if you need us.
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12-10-2002, 06:38 PM #5Registered User
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Yes, he told me. I don't know why it happened or even how. I went over and talked to her and told her that she needs to stay away from my husband. My husband is at work and I really hope he doesn't come home tonight. I have somewhere I can go if I need to. Thanks for the kind words. I appreciate it.
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Jodi, big time hugs to you. You did the right thing. This is tough stuff for sure.When you feel he is sincere in owning up to what he has done maybe talking to a professional can help you guys work through this. I wish you all the very best.
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12-10-2002, 08:32 PM #7
No advice here, just lots of warm fuzzy {{{{hugs}}}}}.
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12-10-2002, 10:49 PM #8FV Buddy aka Kellie Bob
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Jodi, stay strong and follow your heart, this truly sucks, especially at this time of year. Take care of you.---Kellie
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I'm so sorry !!!!!!!!!! I hope it all works out for you !!!!
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12-10-2002, 11:24 PM #10TammyBob
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Oh my! I'm so sorry this happened. I agree with what you did,I would be very upset to.
Did he tell you because he felt bad about it? or why?
Let us know if we can do anything.I know nothing will help,but you know we're here just in case!
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I would feel betrayed too. I think you did the right thing by distancing yourself. I'm truly sorry this is happening to you. We are here for you, should you need to talk.
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12-11-2002, 09:35 AM #12DebbieBob
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I'm so sorry to hear this. we're here for you sweetie!!
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12-12-2002, 10:54 AM #13Super Moderator
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Jodi....how are things going...? Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you. {{{HUGS}}} Let us know how you're doing when you get a chance, ok?
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Oh hun I would feel the same way.And would have done the same thing.Sending you my hugs
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I have read this post many times over the days.
I do feel really bad for you and I am thinking of you A LOT.
I just really don't know the 'right' thing to say - I have only just split up with my 3rd husband (he moved out approx. 4 months ago, but I honestly thought we were going to work it out - until this week and especially YESTERDAY!) So my own emotions are running wild and I keep on and on reading your post and wanting to say something of significance but I just can't think of anything.
I'm so sorry
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