web sites for relationships

**Daphne** · 01-14-2003, 01:57 PM

I thought we could share some websites we like to visit to go to for fun, ideas, advice, etc for our relationships.

I like to read www.drphil.com and www.lovingyou.com

lovingyou.com is fun and has different ideas for things. And we all know about dr. phil. I have also visited marriagebuilders.com too.

What about you? Do you have any sites that you visit?

**aylasmommy** · 01-17-2003, 12:03 AM

thanks for sharing the sites! I love the loving you one

It has some cute ideas i want to try (maybe i can finally cheer my dh up)

**Daphne** · 01-17-2003, 12:10 AM

One thing that I have learned from dr. phil is that some who is upset or angry can't stay that way if you are showing them lots and lots of love. I just got his book called relationship rescue and one of the many things he mentions is that if your partner is acting in a nonloving way give them more love. I tried it and it really works. Now I will tell you Malcom still has his moments of doubts and what am I doing with my life moments but he doesn't get angry or upset as much anymore. I just don't let him. Basically I kill him with kindness. It hurts sometimes and it really is hard to show someone how much you love them when they have hurt you but it is worth it. I've learned that Malcom can't argue with me and he can't stay mad long (because he has nobody to be mad with him) if I'm showing him love. But even though I'm saying all this I don't let him run over me and if he ever crosses the line then I step up and will stand my ground.

I hope this makes sense...I'm sitting here trying to watch joe millionaire at the same time I'm writing this!!