Big Fat Negative!

**nealy** · 01-26-2003, 08:47 AM

Just thought I would post that we did not concieve this cycle, I was really hopeful, but it didn't happen. I am so sad because I really wanted an october baby. I am so discouraged, We have only been trying four months, and that may not seem like a long time for some, but it has only taken two months TTC before, I don't think I can handle the stress and disappointment much longer. I feel great admiration for couples that try for years but I don't think I can do that. I am thinking about stopping TTC and just not use protection and see what happens. Sex on a schedule bites. I hate my cycles.

Nealy

**captclearance** · 01-26-2003, 10:37 AM

It will happen for you.
Keep up the good work and have fun getting it done !

**bamamomto4** · 01-26-2003, 10:52 AM

Don't give up...it'll happen!

I had a hard time getting pg after my first.Took me almost 8 years and a round of clomid to finally concieve. I wanted to give up as well but my desire to have another child won over.
With my son,it took over 6 months and 4 rounds of clomid. I would be so disappointed every month but I knew it would happen.And that clmoid can be hard on a woman.
Funny thing is...with this pregnancy I got pg while on birth control pills.I was only taking the pill to have a period.I was totally shocked to find out I was pg. It took us so long with the other 2 and then wham...we were trying not to get pg and honesty the Dr said my chances of getting pg on my own was just not possible (I don't ovulate..Well,guess I do now lol). Don't give up.
Sex on a schedule is rough..just make amental note when you should Ovulate and do what you gotta do around that time lol
With Jackson,since it was taking so long,I bought a ovulation kit at CVS for $4...and thats the month I got pg

Do you temp? I had to when taking the clomid with Jackson and Katie and it helps to know when your temp spikes and you ovulate....It's an everyday thing and I hated it but it helps...just a thought

I'll send baby dust again this month

**halo475** · 01-26-2003, 10:59 AM

{{{HUGS}}}

**CountryMom** · 01-26-2003, 11:00 AM

I am so sorry. I'm sending baby dust for next month.

**Mom23boys** · 01-26-2003, 11:26 AM

Sending more baby dust Nealy!
Just relax and try not to stress and it will happen. Have fun trying!

**PennyPinchinPam** · 01-26-2003, 11:45 AM

I am thinking about stopping TTC and just not use protection and see what happens.

Once you relax I betcha you'll get preggers. The stress of trying and monitoring can keep you from conceiving. Relax and enjoy!!

I'll be sending you baby thoughts. It will happen.

**Jerseygirl** · 01-26-2003, 12:09 PM

Sweetie, enjoy the process and stop worrying so much, it will happen, stress doesn't help it along any!

**dolphin** · 01-26-2003, 01:38 PM

Sorry Nealy. I hope the test will be positive next month. Good luck sweetie.

**KathiS** · 01-27-2003, 03:44 AM

Relax and keep thinking positive thoughts Sweetie! More hugs, prayers and baby dust coming your way.

**Darlene** · 01-27-2003, 07:14 AM

Everyone has already said what I would have.I just want you to know I am thinking of you.

**nealy** · 01-27-2003, 08:50 AM

Thanks, I have charted before, but I have had two cervical problems and had surgery twice to correct it. I am wondering if that could be part of the problem, we are going to take it easy and see what happens.

Nealy