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    Unhappy Update On My Marriage

    Well, this weekend was very in my house, I believe it is an end and a beginning..........

    Most of you know what I have been going through with my dh over the past year...well he got so wasted Saturday night watching the race that he went overboard... He said things he never should have said, he brought up the girl he had cheated on me with, he threw his drink --- he turned over the end table, etc etc etc................. Well he ran his mouth so much, I had already told him more than once that my son and I were going to be leaving.. then my 19 year old son (bless his heart) came out of his room and said give us a month and we will be gone.

    I felt so bad for my son having to listen to all the ranting and raving, I was so about the whole thing... so my dh had someone pick him up around midnight and the next morning my son and I went to visit my parents. When we returned he was there, of course being so nice and saying he promised he won't drink anymore. We did stay together all day yesterday, but I told him I still have to leave, that I just don't think either of us is happy anymore and I can't live with the stress anymore... Please send me your prayers and good thoughts over the next month because this will truly be a very hard move for me... Thanks for listening...

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    Hugs (((((((((Vickie))))))))))! I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope the move goes smoothly for you and your children.
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    I'll be thinking of you as you make these changes Vickie.
    As you wrote~ this is a new beginning.
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    Vickie~ I'll be keeping you and your ds in my thoughts and prayers. Sending your way!

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    I will be thinking of you too. I am glad you have a son like that. He loves his mama!
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    Vickie,
    I think this may be the turning point for your life. You and your son do deserve a home with peace and quiet. I will be thinking and praying for you. Good luck. Be brave and go forward with confidence. You will never know how good life can be until you take that giant step out into the world and seek happiness.

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    Vickie, Yes, it will be a new begining for you and your son. Keep your courage. I hope our prayers will give you the strength to go through this big change and move, in peace...I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. ((((hugs))))

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    Dear Vicki

    These next few weeks will be hard, but you are a strong woman with so much going for you! Your son obviously loves you and wants only good things for you and we all love you here!

    If you need to talk, I've been where you are so just pm me!

    Great BIG Graci hugs! Sending angels to watch over you!

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    I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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    to you and your son. Stay strong, I'm praying for you!

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    Vicki-
    My thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong, and do what you need to do-- don't let him talk you into "one more chance" if you know it's time to move on. We'll be here for you!

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    Vickie you know I am only an email away. Your son is is wonderful.
    Time to turn over a new leaf sweetie!!

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    So sorry to hear this. Hope you have a better sittuation soon.

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