Gabe admits he's wrong easily and apologizes. I am stubborn and will always admit when I'm wrong, but it takes me forever to get around to it. He'll even say YOU ARE SO STUBBORN! He'll sometimes even fish for the apology which makes me hold out even longer. rofl I am so rotten.
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Me. I also let a lot of stupid things he says go & chalk it up to him just being stupid.
If he's outa line I'll tell him."I know work or what ever is bothering you but there is no need to take it out by doing ,saying xyz."
He blows up at stupid things, won't eat his dinner because he can't & gets a bad nights sleep and the next day he's fine. Why get all worjked up if it's all over with in the morning??????Sheesh.
Had to teach him how to argue when we first married. Before we met if he and someone had a fight that was it, relationship over. Nope, when you are married & have a family, you find ways to work things out and play fair.
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It is usually DH who says it first. I will and I really don't mind saying I was wrong and accepting fault but DH loves peace and tranquility so he will say it just too get it over with.
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I am usually the first although I must admit, that sometimes I do it just to get it over with. I still hold a grudge and don't really get over it until he apologizes as well.
It depends on who did what here. I'll say I'm sorry if I did a bad thing.....dh will as well, but it's usually the day after we did the bad thing.
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It's him .... almost always...... He hates to fight, he's no good at it either........
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Originally posted by karlisangel In our younger years dh did not know the words, I Am Sorry...
So it was always me. He would just get angry, and clam up. Me, I wanted to talk about it and get it over with.
Now, we have sorts switched places He wants to say he is sorry quickly and I want to clam up and fuss over it..
And he also thinks that saying *ok, I apologize* is the same as saying *I am sorry*....GRRR
that could have been me that wrote the above! Yup, exactly the same!!
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that could have been me that wrote the above!
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