Have you or your dh contacted any of your ex's?

**Sara Noel** · 12-26-2003, 11:15 PM

Since being together? I have not contacted any and I don't think Gabe has. My bf right before Gabe contacted me a few times during our marriage.

Occasionally, I wonder how they are, but not enough to call or write.

**sunshine** · 12-26-2003, 11:26 PM

Well, we got to church with the parents of one of my ex-boyfriends and I work with his wife, so I see him occasionally.

One of dh's ex-girlfriends was my friend before we ever dated (she actually introduced us about 4 years before we dated) I love to tell people dh's exgirlfriend is coming to spend the weekend or we're spending the weekend with her (she lives at Lake Carlye)

**KKCondrey** · 12-26-2003, 11:36 PM

I had one write me thru classmates.com. We had been friends and neighbors but both went to universties that were about 2.5 hours in opposite directions so instead of having a long distance relationship our freshman year of college we decided to split up and see what life had in store for us. We haven't seen each other since the funeral of a High School friend of ours about 8 years ago and we haven't written in about 3 or 4 years. He is married as well and actually only lives about 1.5 hours away in the same city as my aunt and uncle...lol

**Guest1** · 12-26-2003, 11:39 PM

No.....I've had one of my ex's call - one called about a month & ½ ago....my *mother* gave him our number.....just one more reason for GW to not be too fond of her!!

**Dixie** · 12-27-2003, 12:41 AM

My dh is a Sunday school teacher. As fate would have it, one of my ex-boyfriends started attending dh's class. Dh is fine with it and even teases me about it.

**sixfreds** · 12-27-2003, 08:19 AM

Yes my husband has been in e-mail contact with one of his ex girl friends.
And last week I meet up with my high school boyfriend after not seeing him for yeas (almost 13), he is the one who set me up on the blind date with my husband matter of fact....

Eileen

**Michelle** · 12-27-2003, 08:40 AM

Nope, never have.

**homesteadmamma** · 12-27-2003, 09:52 AM

Nope never have, although at times I wonder how some of them are doing (the ones that were friends after the relationship broke up).

**PrairieRose** · 12-27-2003, 10:41 AM

We used to be best friends with my ex and his wife. (They split up and he was murdered...long story) That didn't bother dh at all and I was never uncomfortable with it either. Dh has had an ex contact him, over and over. She did everything she could to break us up some 20 yrs. ago.

**SewCrafty** · 12-27-2003, 11:11 AM

Nope, neither one of us.

**AmyMCGS** · 12-27-2003, 12:21 PM

This question is funny to me as DH and I knew each other since the 8th grade (but never more than friends until sophomore year of college). So, we both know most of the other's ex-es. We haven't contacted any of them intentionally, but on occasion we've run into one his or mine. No big deal.

My parents were shocked (after we had started dating) when they came across photos of us from high school on a double date to a dance... Dh with his girlfriend, me with my boyfriend. Dh and I obviously remembered the dance, but my parents hadn't connected the guy I was now dating with the guy they met briefly for a double date several years earlier. LOL, it was too funny.