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    Default If you lost your partner, would you marry again?

    If you were to lose your dh/so, would you marry again. I have to say an absolute NO here. I love dh with all my heart, but I was married at 18 and have been married for almost 36 years. It would be nice to have some time by myself, kwim. Please don't get me wrong here, I'm not saying I don't like being married. I just have never been on my own.

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    I don't know. I can't imagine that I would ever find anyone else that I'm compatable with. I lean towards no, but I do know that I would sooooo miss the companionship.

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    I can't imagine being married to anyone else. DH is my soulmate. I'd have to say NO.

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    Definately not.....and I'd have to agree with you CJ, We've been together longer than we were ever apart & I could never get married again - no desire.....he & I have talked about this (prior to each time he deploys) and he understands that I would prefer to be alone if something were to happen to him.....the kiddos are all old enough to have wonderful memories and there would be no need to "find them a dad"..........so NO!

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    I think yes. It would be quite a while before I'd date & I'd be picky as all heck but I can't imagine going through life without arms to hold me.
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    I do not like being alone for long periods of time. My hubby is my best friend and I love him with all that I am. I cannot imagine life without him. I'm praying that he and I have a very long life together and that I never have to face the prospect of being without him.

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    I cant imagine life without him, I really could not ever imagine being intimate with anyone else. Plus I cant imagine any other person in the world accepting me with all my flaws either, or me allowing someone to see my flaws.

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    I can't say whether or not I'd remarry, but I'd like to think I'd have someone in my life again. I would want Gabe to find happiness too.
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    As much as I love DH, I can't imagine being alone. I guess it would depend on my age as to whether or not I would consider it.

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    I would say no. DH is the one and only for me.
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    How I feel now is that no I wouldn't.

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    Originally posted by karlisangel

    I guess one just never knows really if they would unless put in that position.
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    I don't think I would get married again but I wouldn't mind a relationship with someone else

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    I am not sure. Probably not, but then I would probably get lonely and might reconsider. I am a romantic at heart.

    I think if I were older and my kids grown I probably woudn't. That way I wouldn't have to discuss things with anyone (sounds selfish I know) and I could be an eccentric old lady traveling the country and the world

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