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08-18-2004, 08:31 PM #1Registered User
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Well I'm done
Well I'm done. 18 years of marriage out the window. Can't take all the hate and ranting and raving. He has a monkey on his shoulders and refuses to get help. I am tired of everything being my fault. Like I planed on getting sick, or that the kids don't stand there and let him vervally abuse me. If he had his way he would throw the kids away and let them all live on the street. Including the grandkids. I have 6 kids 3 from my 1st marriage 1 from this one and my 2 neices. And none of them were any good as far as he is concerned, I think its all the grabage he has been taking and lying about it. I know what he has been doing . I dont need the BS any more. He tinks I can't do it on my own. Well I can. And if I can't my kids will help me. Well thats all for now
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08-18-2004, 08:41 PM #3Master Dollar Stretcher
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Oh Fern,
I'm so sorry. How hurtful.
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I'm so sorry Fern.
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I'm so sorry Fern. Big
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Oh Fern, I am so sorry you are having to go thru this.
Please keep us posted on how you are doing.
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08-18-2004, 10:18 PM #8Registered User
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Oh Fern I am so sorry you are having to go through this! Hugs for you!
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08-18-2004, 10:18 PM #9Spendthrift Guru aka KarlaBob
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I'm sorry you are going thru all this...there will be much better days ahead for your family...you are in my prayers.
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I'm sorry. Your right Fern, you & your kids don't have to take it. It shouldn't have to be this way but you can't change him & have to think of whats best for the rest of you.
I'm wishing you the strength to make a happier,low stress, love filled life for you & your kids.
I'll be cheering you on from upstate NY.
Take good care Fern. 
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I'm sorry you have to go through this. Your kids are probably better off than to have to witness his verbal abuse of you.
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I'm so sorry Fern
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I'm sorry Fern.
You and the kids deserve some peace and happiness.
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I'm sorry you are having to go through this. You sound so determined to make a new and better life for yourself and the children. We are here to support you and pray that it is a smooth transition.
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