grr. hubby is on vacation

**favesis37** · 11-21-2005, 09:18 AM

oh man this is his first day of vacation and he is already driving me nuts! it is going to be along week. i am so used to being here all alone and doing things when i want and how i want, love him dearly but man!

**pammy** · 11-21-2005, 09:40 AM

LOL, I feel for ya! My dh has another vacation he's supposed to take before the end of the year. We are tapped out on money so he'd be here with me. I innocently just asked if his company would just cash out his vacation pay instead of his taking his vacation.

I'm like you, I like doing things my way and having some peace during the week is very nice. Hope your week flies by!

**favesis37** · 11-21-2005, 09:41 AM

lol, ty

**Early Bird** · 11-21-2005, 10:22 AM

Deepest sympathies.

**SewCrafty** · 11-21-2005, 10:33 AM

favesis, I was drinking my coffee when I read your thread title and choked!

I can so relate, my hubby is retired now and you would think I don't know how to do anything right in this house. Wonder how I got by all these years?

**favesis37** · 11-21-2005, 10:42 AM

lol, oh how well i understand , already he has changed the whoel days scheldule.lol he is playing a game on the tv when i watch the craft shows, the dogs go outside in the kennel while i am watching a show, he let them in early and now they wantto go back out.lol wonder how it is going to go when the grandbaies get here

**favesis37** · 11-21-2005, 10:43 AM

O did i mention he is hurt on top of vacation? he hurt his shoulder shoveling the other day and is pain! HELP ME!!!!!!!!! lol

**pammy** · 11-21-2005, 10:48 AM

Hang in there, lol.

**Scattymum** · 11-21-2005, 10:57 AM

LOL you have my symaphies too, I love it when DH has a holiday..for about 3 hours LOL

**Sarrah** · 11-22-2005, 07:00 PM

Hi everyone,
This is my first post other than my introductory post but that won't stop me from jumpin' on in here.

My DH and I spend 24/7 together, and we love it. He works at home and in the summer months we both spend way more time outside. We have since the day we met been joined at the hip. I don't know if there is a secret to it. If there was I'd share. Just seems we like to be together at all times.
I think when a spouse works away from home each person tends to have different things to deal with so therefore different methods. When they come back together at the end of the day or during vacation it is reasonable that these differences show up.
I'd suggest you go on vacation too. As much as possible of course. Get up each day and ask what do you want to do today. Of course with the holiday on the horizon that probably isn't all that possible.
So, I have nothing to help you out with I guess... Hot soaks in the tub may help.

**daddys3chicks** · 11-22-2005, 07:08 PM

HUGS to you!

**Darlene** · 11-22-2005, 08:06 PM

Dh is on vacation for the whole month of November, glad to say it's been one of our best vacations yet. There is hope for you.
many years we went for only one day with DH declaring "why did I go on vacation" A nice time was stressfull. Still don't like him messing in my kitchen. Things are the way they are because I like them that way. Hang in & hang on!

**Early Bird** · 11-22-2005, 10:47 PM

It's been a few days ... is he still alive?

**staceyy** · 11-23-2005, 12:15 AM

I know exactly what you're going through as my dh took a week off from work several weeks ago and on the last day decided to rake the leaves. Well he hurt his back so he then had to take two additional weeks off. Now mind you, we both travel separately for a living and are not used to being up under each other all the time. HE DROVE ME NUTS!!! Well he just went back to work yesterday and boy was I relieved as I was just waiting to exhale.

**favesis37** · 11-23-2005, 12:53 AM

lol, today he decided it was not good to mess with my routine. i work nights so am home all day and he works days. today was much better, tomoorw ought to be interesting, i have to pick up grandson#1, cook 4 turkey breast and start the pies, then 2 more grandbabies will come down and then i go to work! he will see just what i go thru with 3 under the age of 4 under foot all day, and the cooking, cleaning, and sewing i have to do.lol