What first attracted you to your spouse/SO?

**Sara Noel** · 08-07-2002, 08:50 PM

For me it was how smart he is and his faith. I loved how candid he was about what he wanted in his future and he was able to express himself openly and freely. I have always been more reserved and private and found his freedom of self disclosure appealing.

Sara

**aylasmommy** · 08-07-2002, 09:14 PM

ok, now i feel shallow ..I liked his face, long legs and his buttocks

And the fact that he was nice, helpful, and good at fixing things (like my cd player)

**Sara Noel** · 08-07-2002, 09:31 PM

Here's a pic of Gabe. It's not a real recent one, but one I have handy to show.

Sara

**aylasmommy** · 08-07-2002, 09:46 PM

Thanks for posting his pic! now I can put a face to a name

**PrairieRose** · 08-07-2002, 10:17 PM

What a cute couple you two make!

I found my dh mostly physically attractive at first and then I got to know him and found him to be sensitive, caring, easy to talk to.....a real sweetheart!

**simplemom** · 08-07-2002, 10:33 PM

I thought he seemed so kind and generous. He was discreet but so sweet and thoughtful.

Sara! Gabe is very nice looking! and he seems kind.

**Dixie** · 08-07-2002, 10:41 PM

Sara, y'all are such a cute couple! What first attracted me to my dh was his looks. I'm shallow , but when I looked into his big beautiful, blue eyes, I was a goner.

He is a spittin' image of the actor, Jeff Daniels. Twenty years later, I still think he's a hunk!

**mustang80** · 08-07-2002, 10:41 PM

My DH has a great sense of humor and keeps me in stitches. We laugh all the time, and it's great because I love to laugh and so does he. All the other stuff fell into place. We're soulmates.

**crdurham** · 08-08-2002, 12:26 PM

Well, I will have to say at first it was his good looks...

we knew each other for 5 years, but never said one single word to each other....then there was a chance meeting and the rest is history....lol...

Once I got to know him, its how well we get along and have fun..he is so fun to be around, he is a GREAT husband, caring, sensitive....just a all around great guy!!

Here's a picture of us on our wedding day:

**sunshine** · 08-08-2002, 10:56 PM

What first attracted me to him? GRAVITY!

I was running down a ramp, came around a corner and ran smack into him- knocked him flat. I told him if he wanted a proper apology to follow me, otherwise "GET OUT OF MY WAY!" 2 years later we were married.

He loves to tell everyone that I knocked him off his feet the first time he saw me

**justjenn** · 08-09-2002, 01:06 PM

Definitely my dh's good looks. He was voted "Best looking" in school, and he definitely deserved it! I can't believe that he chose me out of all the girls there. Because, I was certainly not the best looking girl! lol

**Michelle** · 08-09-2002, 01:15 PM

Definitely his smile and his "soft" eyes.

Michelle

**Jerseygirl** · 08-09-2002, 04:07 PM

Mine wore me down!!! 2 years of "Someday we will be together" and me saying shut up! Eventually it happened. But I always found him handsome and sweet and kinda dopey.

**Leiloni77** · 08-15-2002, 01:27 PM

My SO has brown curly hair and light blue eyes. He wore his hair short when I first met him, but the past two years he's grown it out. He has a pony tail, and when he wears his ray bans he looks like an assassin!!! RRROOOOOWWWWRRRRRRLLLLLL

**bmiltimore** · 08-15-2002, 01:50 PM

I love my DH's laugh. It is the best laugh and he has the cutest smile. He is warm, gentle, loving and sweet. He is my best friend and the man I was born to marry.