Custody Battle

**Goodwin17** · 08-09-2006, 10:15 PM

I am sending you some extra big hugs. You are dealing with a lot of garbage, and I hope that things go your way. I'm glad the judge put him in his place. It's awful that he told your children that! Take care, and hang in there!!

**kabin63** · 08-18-2006, 06:45 PM

Karen,
I am late on reading this, but I wish you all the best. I didn't have any children when I got divorced but my DH did when he got divorced. There was a custody battle and the kids ended up with DH and me. The ex would have been the same with the kids and she tried to bully the judge too, but it didn't work out in her favor either. Hold your head up high and know you are doing the right thing. Let ex dig his own hole. Unfortunately ex doesn't realize what he is doing to your girls. It will come back to bite him in the butt, so to speak. I hope your daughters are ok, because this is hardest on them. JMHO

**Daisygirl** · 08-21-2006, 02:13 PM

Well, just three more days til his first deadline. If my ex does not provide my attorney with his tax papers by Thursday, he will default and be in contempt, which means everything will go my way. I am a nervous wreck.

He is doing all he can to keep the kids away from me, he is so spiteful. For example, today the kids were to go back to him. He had to work all day so I wanted to keep them and let him pick them up at the end of the day when he was done but he insisted they be taken care of by his girlfriend. What is the point of that? I truly cannot stand him, and I know that is just awful. I hate it that our poor children are being subjected to this. He is actually going out of his way and making things harder on himself just to hurt me.

Cross your fingers it is all over on Thursday.