after this past week i just might loose it

**favesis37** · 01-20-2007, 05:05 AM

as many of you know dec. was a terrible month for us. dh had surgery then got a blood clot, anyway things seemed to be getting better till this week.

thrusday i get a phone call: ddil has been in a wreck and totalled her car. we spent most of the day at the dr making sure the baby was ok( everything was great) i no sooner get home then i check the messages on the phone, dniece has not turned up at school, i get hold of brother and we find out she has run away. call police, finally find her( she made it to the city 20 miles away) she went to her moms. db lets her stay up there for the night and cool down. friday: supposed to have a mom and daughter day, dd shows up not feeling real well, but we headed out any way. about an our into our day she starts feeling real bad, terribel headache, then neck pain sets in, then i have a crying 23 year old on my hands. call the dr, no appoinments, gonna take her to the er, she says no she wants the dr, call the dr back talk to him he gets her in. spend 4 hours there while they decided what is wrong and what they are going to do. they figure out it is a muscle contraction headache due to a proir infection she had. they give her shots and meds, send us home. now i have a 23 year old who is in lala land.
get her home, pick up dsil because loopy can't drive anywhere, take him to get the car and kids, get home, cook dinner, phone rings, it si dniece saying she has chose to stay at her moms now , no longer live with us. db falls apart, leaves the house crying. it was a mess. i looked this morning and he is home, but i am sure his heart is ripping apart. now it is 4:00 inthe morning and i have to leave for work.
sorry this is so long, just needed to share

**staceyy** · 01-20-2007, 06:28 AM

As they say, when it rains it pours. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

**Nada.Leona** · 01-20-2007, 08:20 AM

Not quite familiar with all the goings-on in your home, but it sounds like you could use a nice relaxing bath and a good nap. Try to do something nice for yourself before taking on the rest of the world. You'll feel better for it.

**Michelle** · 01-20-2007, 08:34 AM

Wow, what a week. I hope things get better for you real soon

**Michelle68** · 01-20-2007, 10:23 AM

Aw, Kim, I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. I hope that things get better.

--Michelle

**nuisance26** · 01-20-2007, 10:25 AM

~Oh my what an emotionally draining series of events! My prayers are with you and your family. It can only get better, right?

~

**Dixie** · 01-20-2007, 11:55 AM

:hugs:

What an awful week. I hope things get better.

**Missy** · 01-20-2007, 12:07 PM

I hope things get to clam down soon.

**emily_hope** · 01-20-2007, 12:27 PM

You have been having such a rough time. I know it doesn't seem like it right now, but as my DMother always says, "This too shall pass". Take care of yourself.

**AheeK** · 01-20-2007, 12:41 PM

I'm sorry things are so rough for your family right now. I hope things settle down and straighten out soon.

**Stormy** · 01-20-2007, 12:51 PM

Sorry all this came on top of everything else.
Sending good thoughts and prayers your way.

**autumnlynn** · 01-20-2007, 05:13 PM

So sorry your family is going through such a hard time. I agree with Nada, you need to pamper yourself a little. Sending you hugs and know things will be better soon.

**FrugalMomof3** · 01-20-2007, 05:18 PM

Sorry for such tough situations happening at home right now, just remember we are all here for you and I will pray that things make a turn for the better for you and your family.