I spent yesterday crying

[perSue]

i havent posted to this because i felt like i had nothing to offer, but did read up on the updates & the happenings and others' comments.
I wouldnt have known what to do in your shoes, but appreciate all the questions/comments people made for me to get a better perspective.

however, i wanted to give a little appreciation and wish good luck with the positive change.
I think when someone is in denial, even reality doesnt sink in... but when someone WANTS to change, and they begin to accept reality as it is, good or bad, that's when real change can happen, imho.

And I really hope for your sake that this is the "reality check" needed for your dh to change, and change for good.

We're here for you...

[alch]

I could not live the way you do.I would go beserk having to check on my hubby everyday. Please get out of this mess and take care of yourself. That is what is wrong with women. We feel like we can take care of the mess someone else makes. I got out before it got worse and it did. I needed peace because life is to short. God bless you.....