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Old 02-24-2008, 09:49 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default YAY ... She has decided ( sort of ) to move here *G*

I am pretty excited.. well and nervious.. but happy.

Joe's mom has decided to move in June to here unless sooner ( hopefully ). When she comes she wants to get a pet and since she can't have a kitten she is going to get a turtle *lol* Woman after my own heart *G* We went over all sorts of pets she could have rabbit, ferret, hampster, fish, ect basically things we already have cages for.. she decided upon a turtle... So i was like what kind does she want secula ( they grow big though ), a box turtle, or red slider ( which can get big ).

But anyways she will be staying with us until a trailer opens up.. unless one has opened up by then. We are going to save back if we get that Subsidation check incase there is a trailer open then so she could just move directly into a trailer... i think she would like to be independant as fast as possible.
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Well thats great, hopefully the turtle she gets will stay small, lol but enjoy your time together.
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Old 02-24-2008, 10:14 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Make sure she double checks what the needs of a turtle is...my friend has a red eared slider and they have to have pretty decent size aquariums...with swim area and a basking area...though I know the different breeds have different needs. She'll want to get a set up done before she actually gets the turtle.
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Glad she is moving closer. I know you guys were worried about her!
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VERY good news! I am hopeful that all will work out well for you, Joe, baby, and Joe's mother. We're here for you...
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That's terrific! I'm glad to hear that she decided to stay with you and Joe.

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Wonderful news!
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That is such great news.
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Aww, I'm so glad. It's not an easy choice for her, leaving all her friends and such. Do you have places nearby that she can easily go to and make new friends?
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That is awesome that she has agreed to come live with/by you where you can help her out when needed. Turtles are great! Yes, they can get big and the set up can need to be a good size. I'd just find out what kind she wants and do the research. I had a turtle for 10 years that someone had gotten from a local lake around here and she never got bigger than a 50 cent piece. I have no clue why that was, or what kind of turtle she was either, but she had a set up in my house that took up a whole room. I don't think it's legal to buy turtles that small from a pet store though. I believe they have to be a minimum of 4 inches.
Anyhow, I hope she finds one she really likes and that this all works out very well for everyone. Grandma's close to grandbabies is never a bad thing!
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Hiya,

Thats great!!
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Yay! Happy news.
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GREAT NEWS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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That's great news! You can help her out & maybe she can help out a bit when the baby comes too!
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