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  1. 01-04-2004, 04:34 PM #1
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    Question Is it easy for you to discuss finances with your dh/so

    This use to be a very difficult one for us, but now dh knows exactly where the money is going. It made it much easier to take care of the finances when we could talk it over and make the right decisions together.
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  2. 01-04-2004, 04:38 PM #2
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    DH and I have always discussed finances, even before we were married. We even had a joint savings account that we deposited money into while we were engaged to help cover the cost of our honeymoon.
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  3. 01-04-2004, 04:48 PM #3
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    It is now. We made a plan together and stuck to it and got things paid off.
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  4. 01-04-2004, 06:32 PM #4
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    It is now...but in year's past it wasn't so easy...during the leanest years. Now we both want to know where we are, what we need to do, how to do it, ETC.... . It makes it so much easier to be unified and easier to attain our goals.

    ~48 yr. old sahw, livin' it up in our empty nest, smack dab in the middle of everywhere.~
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  5. 01-04-2004, 06:46 PM #5
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    Sometimes- sometimes I get frustrated, as we're not always on the same wavelength.

    I think we have a plan, only to find out later that dh didn't follow what I thought we had agreed upon.
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  6. 01-04-2004, 06:54 PM #6
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    Yes, we discuss everything big or small.
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  7. 01-04-2004, 10:26 PM #7
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    I don't have a problem discussing everything with him. I take care of all the money and he trust me to make the right decisions.
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  8. 01-05-2004, 09:04 AM #8
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    We discuss most things concerning our finances. All major purchases (over $50) are made together. I find more and more lately though that dh just doesn't share my same ambition to be debt-free. Don't get me wrong, he wants to be out from under our debt, but he just doesn't want to sacrifice anything for it.
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  9. 01-05-2004, 09:36 AM #9
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    Yes, we make all decisions together. He earns the money & I write the checks. I have a comfort level with the ammount that's in the checking acct. When it starts getting below my comfort zone I sit down with Jack and show him what's up, he then shows me that things really are oK, just have to cut back here & there.When we were first married I kept my worries to myself, now I share 'em
    I just hate when your going along fine & then you get thrown a whammy and have to figure out how to deal. It all works out eventually.
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  10. 01-07-2004, 04:32 PM #10
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    Yep, we talk very easily about finances.
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  11. 01-07-2004, 04:38 PM #11
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    um no. Dh is a spendahoilc and won't tell me the truth about where he spends money. i am a hoarder and won't tell him how much i have squirreled away in my "secret hididng spot"
    ~~ Missy ~~

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