Golden Opportunity

**babetteq** · 05-08-2006, 09:54 AM

I have been presented with a golden opportunity that will change the way I frugalize.

Two months ago my spouse and I broke up. I went to live with my family and I've been living in a spare room without an income or even my clothing for most of this time.

I just got a job locally and my family has told me that I can stay there without having to put in for food and rent as long as I save up to buy my own land. I would never be able to afford to do this on my own and I'm touched by their incredible generosity. To respect the magnitude of this offer, I've decided to save all of my money except for 40$ a month.

I've never been in a position like this. The break up is very hard on me, but this sure gives me a sense of future and independance that I wouldn't have had any other way.

I have 280$ saved so far.

-Babs

**Lorri** · 05-08-2006, 10:17 AM

I am sorry to hear that you are going through hard times. Very glad to hear you have a supportive family who is so willing to help you. Good luck to you and your family and bless you all.

**PrairieRose** · 05-08-2006, 10:47 AM

What's that old saying..? For every door that closes a window opens, is that right? Well I'd say your window is a great big picture window. I'm happy to hear that some positive things have come out of your loss

**AmyBoz** · 05-08-2006, 10:51 AM

How very generous! Best of luck!

**Valerie in WA** · 05-08-2006, 12:23 PM

I'm sorry to hear of the death of your marriage. It is encouraging to have a supportive family. Please keep us updated on your progress and your search for just the right land.

**staceyy** · 05-08-2006, 01:09 PM

What a blessing! Best of luck.

**canadian gardener** · 05-08-2006, 01:35 PM

Great family!!!!! Way to go! Sorry about the life giving you a great big fat lemon, but it looks to me like you are making lemonaide, and that your family thinks like you do. Good family, great attitude, sending a big hug!

**leezza** · 05-08-2006, 04:07 PM

What a wonderful gesture from your parents......they sound like really great people.

Regards,
leezza

**Cele** · 05-08-2006, 04:54 PM

Babs, what a wonderful opportunity for you! I love it when families put the action behind their words...yours certainly has! Best of luck, my dear.

**Lmullin** · 05-08-2006, 04:57 PM

No one can ever truly go it alone all of the time. You are blessed to have such a wonderful family. And you are doing them a kindness in return by capitalizing on their kindness by saving all your money to become independent. Keep us posted on how you're doing.

**Darlene** · 05-08-2006, 07:46 PM

New beginnings full of all kinds of possibilities. Hold close your dreams and ideals & spread those wings & fly my friend.

**Mamaw** · 05-08-2006, 08:45 PM

I am sorry you had to experience the pain of a breakup. But I am so glad you are gaining something positive from it! Take care of yourself and keep those dreams alive!

**mom2matty** · 05-08-2006, 09:18 PM

I agree.......what a wonderful opportunity for you, best of luck!!!

**ama** · 05-09-2006, 08:30 AM

I truly believe that change is difficult but necessary. I think this is an opportunity for you to change your life and its within reach as long as you stay on task. If you're determined you can do it. I'm so sorry to hear of your break up but you'll get through I promise.

**sarathom** · 05-09-2006, 09:25 AM

Take this challenge and go with it! I think it is great that you have this wonderful family to help you get back on your feet. BEst of luck....keep us posted on your journey!