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08-18-2006, 12:18 AM #1
17th day of cooking and cost
Today I found out in the paper(obituary) that my daddy had died on the 14th and was buried on the 16th. No one told us and we were not listed in the paper as his 3 dds. His step children were listed though! I went from not knowing he was sick, to having him die, and then being buried in about 2 minutes! I am still in shock.
Yes isn't that something?? We hadn't spoken to him for about 6 years for very good reasons...but it would have been nice to have gone to his funeral! We did FIND out where he was so we put flowers and a card on his grave. It was never that we didn't love him...
Sorry to prattle on....
So needless to say that in my grief I didn't cook!
I made up 3 cans of tuna, got out the lettuce, cheese and chips and told to the troops to have it.
Now I think I need to go throw up!
Cricketlegs
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08-18-2006, 12:25 AM #2
Oh Cricket, I am so very sorry for your loss.
I'm sure your family can understand how you are feeling and I think you did great to make up the tuna salad.
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08-18-2006, 12:30 AM #3
Ohhhhh. You are so right. Someone could have least called you and let you know.
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08-18-2006, 12:50 AM #4
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08-18-2006, 07:23 AM #5
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am in shock that some people could be so cold! Hugs!
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08-18-2006, 07:39 AM #6
I'm am so sorry that you had to find out about your father's passing that way. There is no excuse for that. That was simply mean-hearted. Hugs to you.
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08-18-2006, 07:57 AM #7
Big hug, I'm so sorry.
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08-18-2006, 11:34 AM #8
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08-18-2006, 12:39 PM #9
Thank YOu!
I am feeling a little better today and we will be able to find out his cause of death today also when we pick up his death certificate..closure!
Thank you for all your kind messages and posts. They mean alot!
Yes but how much did the tuna cost???
Cricket
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08-18-2006, 01:29 PM #10Moderator aka AmyBob
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So sorry to hear this, Cricket.
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I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO sorry for your loss and I'm sending a hug your way.
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09-04-2006, 09:42 AM #12
Oh wow, I'm feeling bad cause I didn't see this earlier. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you can somehow find the closure you need.
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09-04-2006, 01:32 PM #13
Oh Cricket, I am so sorry for your loss.

Me and my sister are in a similar family situation with our dad. I have a feeling the same thing will happen to us.
You are in my prayers!
~*Michelle*~
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09-14-2006, 06:10 PM #14
hugs to you. Iam sorry you had to find out that way, it had to be a kick in the teeth!
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09-14-2006, 06:26 PM #15
My heart goes out to you..I know exactly how you feel Hon.. (((HUGS)))
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