emotional rollercoaster

**favesis37** · 07-08-2008, 06:30 AM

i took dd to the dr yesterday, he gave her a full release with no restrictions, the baby is fine! Praise God, i cried like a baby. I got home and called my sister only to find out that her dh has small cell cancer, it is inoperbable and incurable. it is in in lungs, lymph nodes and wensday they find out if it is in his brain and spine. 3 weeks ago this man was working , he hurt his back, when he went in for a cscan they found the tumor, it is tennis ball size.up till that point he never was sick. the dr's gave him 6 months without chemo and cannot promise more with it, they chose chemo.
this man is a man that i loved and respected so much i named my son after him, this same man took me in when my parents got divorced and let me live with him and ds with no child support and no idea of where my dad was. this same man drove over to give me away when my own dad would not for my wedding. he and my ds have been together since she was 9 and he was 11. 44 years.
i am so emotional and don't know what to do for my sister. sorry this is so long just had to post it.

**Michelle** · 07-08-2008, 06:41 AM

You're right...you are on an emotional roller coaster. I am so happy that the baby is okay. Man, what horrible news about your sis's dh. I hope the dr's are wrong and that he beats the odds.

**prftstrngr** · 07-08-2008, 06:48 AM

Glad to hear baby is fine.....and so sorry to hear about your brother in law. Best advice I have is to just be there for them. let them talk or cry or whatever they need! Sometimes lending an ear is the best gift you can give. Lots of people beat odds like that so try to keep them and yourself positive! I will add you to my prayers.

**baxjul** · 07-08-2008, 06:51 AM

I'm so sorry, saying prayers.

**COUNTRYBUMPKIN** · 07-08-2008, 06:54 AM

First of all, I am glad that your precious dd is fine! Praise the Lord!
Now just take a deep breath and try to relax. Your sisters dh was diagnosed with cancer and has been told he is "terminal" by a person who has no idea on how to cure cancer. Cancer can be cured! Conventional medicine does not know how to cure because the only thing they know with cancer is how to slash, burn and poison the body. They do not know how to get to the underlying cause of the cancer. Cancer is not a "disease".......just a dis-ease that can be corrected if you give the bodies cells what they need. I say this.......Shame on conventional medicine for playing God!

Let me post a few websites here for you to give to your dear sister and her dh. There is hope and there are plenty of people who can help him learn how to cure his cancer.

www.beating-cancer-gently.com

www.hacres.com
http://www.stopdoingcancer.com/natur...rapy-log-p.htm

http://www.cancertutor.com/

www.curezone.com

www.naturalnews.com

**TheRootedNomad** · 07-08-2008, 06:57 AM

and more

**cmdarlin** · 07-08-2008, 07:15 AM

My prayers are with you and your family.

Debbie in Missouri

**Darlene** · 07-08-2008, 07:26 AM

I'm so glad your dd & baby are fine. Hoping for that miracle with your dbil. :hug:

**C@rol** · 07-08-2008, 07:42 AM

Saying a silent prayer.
Glad for your daughter.
Heart aches for the wonderful man you describe.

**baronmom** · 07-08-2008, 07:56 AM

and prayers

**emily_hope** · 07-08-2008, 08:02 AM

It's understandable that you would be on an emotional rollercoater. One minuted discovering that your DD is fine and the next minute discovering the news about your DBIL. I am sorry to hear of your DBIL's illness. Saying a prayer for everyone involved.