This "Mommy" is about to lose it!!!

**nvmommyx6** · 10-09-2008, 12:56 PM

I have been screwing with ChaCha, I received an invite and did the test, however, the page failed to load on my last test and it said to contact them about the problem, so I did.... every day for the last 2 weeks!!! I finally got a reply last night and went to log into my account to finish registering and was told my account had been suspended by the page!!
So I replied to the email and on the site as your not allowed to have multiple accounts, but I cannot log into mine and cannot re-register as I am not allowed to have multiple accounts! I have lost my patients!!

I'm feeling like quite the failure as a parent, I have 3 children that are 12, 13, 14. I try to be as understanding as I can about the hormonal insanity, head-up-ass syndrome of teens and tweens!! But my patience is wearing paper thin there as my 12 year old seems to think "Drama" is the "IN" thing right now and I ain't talking Drama Class' here folks!! My 13 year old seems to think "Slob" is the new Chic and he is taking it to the extreme of "Slob Perfectionism"!!! My 14 year old seems to think "Adolf Hitler" is the man to mimic
and treats people as if they are less than he is, I called him "Omnipotent" the other day and he asked me, "what is Omnipotent"!! ROFLMAO
I have lost my patients!

My entire family (except my 7 and 9 year olds) seems to be working against my frugal ways for the past weekish and I am about to spontaneously combust!! I'm sure you've all heard the old expression "Slap some sense into them" well, I'm ready for that to go from expression to reality here!!

I feel like I want to run away and "call me when your all done with your issues and become humans again"!!! It's like there is a moon change comin and everyones gone "STUPID"!! Like I'm the only one living in the "real" world here and fighting to try and pull the rest of them back in! Even the danged dogs are in their own little "STUPID" world, I mean, have I been the one that left "reality" here and I'm just too stupid to realize it?!!! No, because my 7 and 9 year olds are here with me! So is my Mother for that matter and that woman is as sharp as a tack and has told me before, "your losing it" so I know I am still in reality here and my family has gone south for the winter!!

Don't get me wrong here, I Love my family with all my heart and I would never do anything to jeopardize that. However I'm having Mommy burn out right now and not from being a Mom, but feeling like a piece of carpet that everyone seems to walk on recently and not being appreciated and wondering why my family has gone insane!!!
OK, rant over!!!

**VanVivCam** · 10-09-2008, 01:09 PM

just sending you a big hug. hope things get better for you soon. take the rest of the day to relax on the couch and watch soaps!!!

**Moor** · 10-09-2008, 01:11 PM

ROFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry. But I just had to! LOL

Do what I told you to do with the "slob".

**nvmommyx6** · 10-09-2008, 01:17 PM

Originally Posted by Moor

ROFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry. But I just had to! LOL

Do what I told you to do with the "slob".

Well I did, it is all outside his window at the moment but now I have to go get the loader to dump it all in the trailer HAHAHAAAA

And I knew you'd LYOA when ya saw the post!!!

**Dancing Lotus** · 10-09-2008, 01:25 PM

Yep, sounds pretty normal to me. LOL

**BlessedMomof2** · 10-09-2008, 01:55 PM

Big hugs to you. I hope they start being themselves for you and real soon.

**prftstrngr** · 10-09-2008, 02:34 PM

My mom always told me someday Id have kids and then Id realise what a brat I was at times!! I have one 16 yr old and wow am I glad thats it somedays....I can so relate to the *slob*!! I clean nothing for him...I close his door and if he complains he has no clothes I tell him the washer is in the basement and if he cant get them down there...I aint washing them! Good luck with all that... I feel your frustration!

**Katybird** · 10-09-2008, 03:27 PM

Sorry that things are so crazy for you right now. I can relate to the Cha Cha situation. I have had the same thing happen to me. I tried several times to get in and finish the testing but finally just gave up. If the Cha Cha site is that fickle, I don't want to be involved with it.

I hope that your kids find their human genes soon and revert to that form. Big

to you.

**MomToTwoBoys** · 10-09-2008, 03:32 PM

Hey C.J,

I totally get where you're at right now. I got those days quite a bit and they're usually the worst during vacation and when I'm sick. My 5 year old is at the point where he thinks I need to bend to every whim and my 10 year old refuses to acknowledge that he's in trouble and needs to be punished (he's the autistic one). I think DH finally realized it was making me irate to the point of getting sick, so he stepped up and started being more assertive with both kids. If it gets to me too much, I stomp on the floor really hard and yell at the top of my lungs. It gets the point across.