She Did It again....RANT

[fernykins]

Well the stalker from H*LL did it again even with a restraining order. She got into my sons car (know the key pad code on the door) This is what she has taken so far
borad shorts
half a bottle of colonge
CD's
work phone
work keys
IPOD
DGS PSP
She followed him to Garden Grove yesterday She thinks shes above the law. I go back to court on Dc 3rd. I wish her karma would catch up with her. They don't ven run her lic. Its surspened for a DUI. I need good throughts so she can get what is coming to her..........
IJUST WISH SHE WOULD LEAVE US ALONE>>>> is that to much to ask.
Fern

[prftstrngr]

Can the codes be changed? or is that expensive? Wow Im sorry this is happening to you...definately sending good vibes your way....people like that totally deserve to get what is coming to them!

[georgiamom]

I feel for you, and I've been there the court system where I am from wouldn't charge the person that was stalking me they did charge him with harassing phone calls after 11 years. I had him even threatening me. He only got 365 days in jail and a fine of about 700 dollars. He got out after about 300 for good behavior. He was banned from my county but I found out recently after 7 years that expires so in one more year that will be up. If he would terrorize me for 11 dont you think he will be back after 7 me and another victim think YEP. But I am ready now I know what to do and since I know who he is now I am prepared. I didnt know till they arrested him and showed me picture. For eleven years I only knew a voice. He knew me where I was what I was doing my children my husband what I drove what I wore where I worked and that was with law enforcement he didnte care and guess what they didnt either or they would have thrown the book at him. You have the right to be mad she is crazzzzy. People like that should be put under the jail. Once they start they dont stop. Look at what that women did to Paula Abdula and other people. They are not right in the head. I would suggest making a book of everything that did help me a little. I had recorders, video everything. Did they fingerprint his car. There is a site about stalking I cant remeber what it is I was told about it when my case happened like I said almost seven years ago. You might google it and find out about it. I wrote my feelings down and it helped. After all of that I almost went to therapy sometimes I still think I need it and may. ?????

[fernykins]

I had him call the police in Garden Grove. I think her in Ca a restraining order is permenat unless I go in a change it......... I'm calling ford tomorrow to find out how much it is to change the code. I'm also calling a lock smith today to see how much it will cost to change it......... We've called Fontana PD so many times on her. They do not care........... I do think she needs to be ocked up and the keys lost...........
Fern

[FrugalMomof3]

OMG this is just outrageous.... they wont do anything to her? WHY? You need to catch her in the act with pictures or a video.

[Mom23boys]

Wow, Fern. I am sorry you are having to deal with the lunatic! I hope she gets what is coming to her sooner than later. Hopefully it will not be too much to change the code.

[rainbowgc]

Wow, Fern. I am sorry you are having to deal with the lunatic! I hope she gets what is coming to her sooner than later. Hopefully it will not be too much to change the code.

What a terrible situation!

[annymoll]

Be careful Fern. She sounds mentally disturbed.

[zakity]

How scary!

For all of you who are stalked, you might want to consider looking into handgun permits and some good training classes. Also, if it is legal in your state, open carry. It is a good deterent.

[IntlMom]

WOW Fern.....this woman is seriously mental!!
be careful, you and everyone that is dealing with a stalcker!!

[Nana2two]

Ferny, I tried to find your orginal post, put could not, How old is your son? I noticed you live in Fontana my sisters and my parents live there also, beautiful area .My sister works for the high school, gosh i think she has worked there many years. All her kids graduated from there also. The oldest is 26 the youngest is 18

[nvmommyx6]

you have a restraining order, call the cops, explain to them that you have that restraining order and they HAVE to do something, if not, then ask for their supervisor, and if he/she wont do anything ask for their supervisor and on and on until they do their job!!!
find out if the lock code on the car can be changed and "get it changed" right away!!! And no matter where he goes, if his name is specified on the order then she cannot legally be within, "___" feet of him...even if he is in tazmania!!!!

[AuntSissy]

Sorry that your Family are going through this....However, it shouldn't cost anything to change the keycode on your son's Ford. The instructions are in the Owner's Manual (at least they are in mine). If you cannot locate the manual/instructions, try this link:

www.fordforums.com

A number of posts have been created that deal with the keycode changing issue you're having.

Be safe - - and be well!
Anna <who would be parking that Ford @ the Police station and hitching a ride home/to work until the nightmare ended>

[jamie79]

If the po9lice are not helping you make a call to the attorney general of your state

[fernykins]

Jason I think evil throughts too....... You made my day........
I'll check out that website......thanks