UGh, Family!

**Dancing Lotus** · 12-17-2008, 01:36 PM

So I have an ex sister in law who shall remain nameless. Lets just call her Trash.

Well Trash is the mother or three kids. Not that she have even cared for any of them. Trash was married to my Bil whom we will call Moron.
Trash and moron make quite the pair, neither are worth the paper there birth certificates are written on.
My MIL has custody of trash and morons kids. She has had them for about 3 yrs and will continue to have them.
Moron is in Prison and Trash is homeless on the streets. Both by choice. Trust me don't feel sorry for them.

Now to the point of this rant.
My MIL has a vacant home that she has just called me and asked me to give the key to Trash to. So that trash will have a place to live. Hum, how many times are we going to have to do this? This woman has lived in and been kicked out of mil's house many times. She never pays rent, never takes care of anything and doesn't even send mil a dime to care for her kids with.

Why is this my problem? Well because it's down the street from my home and now Trash will be bothering me. And I do not want to call her to tell her to come get the key because she will now have my phone number, which we changed so that she would not know it. Isn't there some way to black my number from being seen on her caller ID. She doesn't have a home phone because she doesn't have a home but she has a cell phone that my mil pays for.

How many woman do you know that would financialy support an EX daughter in law? this is so weird

**zakity** · 12-17-2008, 01:37 PM

What about calling her from a pay phone?

**Dancing Lotus** · 12-17-2008, 01:40 PM

Not a bad idea, although I would have to find one.

**Rebookie** · 12-17-2008, 01:43 PM

Your MIL sounds like she has unwavering faith that people can change. The victims of this whole mess is the babies. Which probably still love their mama no matter what she does,, So maybe in a small way your MIL is doing it for the kids.. Even if your SIL is an idiot.

**Izzy0906** · 12-17-2008, 01:45 PM

why not give your MIL the key and let her deal with trash?

**rachelj** · 12-17-2008, 01:45 PM

So, how do you really feel about her???

Um, isn't it star69 or star67? that blocks your number?

**justpeachy92** · 12-17-2008, 01:46 PM

if you dial *67 and then her number your number should be blocked from showing up on caller id. Maybe you could try it by calling a friend first and see if it works.

**Toonces2** · 12-17-2008, 01:47 PM

Cant you give mil the key and have her deal with this herself?

**cheapskate 49** · 12-17-2008, 01:48 PM

I wonder why you have to give your sil the keys and not your mil?.I would call from a friends house or a pay phone(if you can find one) or mil's house.Your mil sounds like a great lady in looking after the kids

**Dancing Lotus** · 12-17-2008, 01:48 PM

Mil lives in another state so she can't do it. That's why I have the key.

**Dancing Lotus** · 12-17-2008, 01:51 PM

Jason, I have spoken to Mil until my lips turned blue. That's getting me absolutely no where.

2 things, yes mil believes with all her heart that people can change.
yes mil would help anyone, anywhere , anytime.

**MomToTwoBoys** · 12-17-2008, 01:51 PM

Your MIL must be a glutton for punishment. I'd put the key in the mailbox. I'd then call Trash from a pay phone or block your number before calling her and let her know that once she gets this key, do not bother to contact you for anything else. If Trash does, I'd call the police.

**Dancing Lotus** · 12-17-2008, 01:54 PM

Excellent. I'm on my way to put it in the mail box. Why didn't I think of that? Then I will call Mil and tell her to call Trash and let her know where to find the key. I could kiss you MomToTwoboys

**SixxOfDiamonds** · 12-17-2008, 01:56 PM

Yup, its *67 - but it only works on some providers so definitely check by calling a friend first.

I can't believe your MIL is doing this, but I suspect it's because of the kids.
Good luck with it all, I'm sorry that you have to be brought into it.

**Cricket1** · 12-17-2008, 02:12 PM

[QUOTE=AnnK;1066355]So I have an ex sister in law who shall remain nameless. Lets just call her Trash.

Oh, Ann! That is the second time in two days you made me choke on an orange. I either have to stop consuming oranges while reading your posts or you have to stop being so funny!

I like the idea of leaving the key on the property and calling from a pay phone. Just say no to Trash!