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  1. 03-22-2009, 04:50 PM #1
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    Default just another 'either or question'...

    are you passive or agressive ???

    i would say i am mostly agressive but as i get older i am becoming more passive...(or maybe its just tired...lol).....

    what about you....passive or agressive ????

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  2. 03-22-2009, 04:54 PM #2
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    I have become passive but probably like you ... just getting tired. I am only aggressive if someone or something threatens or makes a member of my family feel bad. Then the mamma bear claws come out!
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    I'm just like Debbie. I tend to be passive, but if you attack my kiddos (with words, or otherwise!) I'll come after you aggressively!
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  4. 03-22-2009, 05:00 PM #4
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    I can be either passive or aggressive depending upon the situation. I used to have a hair trigger temper, but I have mellowed considerably with age...now, I tend to blow off a lot of crap that would have gotten my undies in a bunch years ago.
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  5. 03-22-2009, 05:00 PM #5
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    I'm very passive unless you mess with my kids!!
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  6. 03-22-2009, 05:08 PM #6
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    I'm pretty passive, except when it comes to my kids like everyone else has noted.
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  7. 03-22-2009, 05:09 PM #7
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    Passive unless its something I really need to go for, or if you mess w/someone I love.
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  8. 03-22-2009, 08:56 PM #8
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    I think I am the opposite, in that I used to be very passive and had to learn to be aggressive. Having a child, esp one I had to fight for diagnoses and educators with helped.
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    I have a very calm personality so I guess that makes me passive. I don't like confrontation but I am not afraid of it when the need arises.
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    I am normally passive, however if you push me I am very aggressive.. many dont expect that from me, since I tend to very calm and quiet
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  11. 03-23-2009, 12:54 AM #11
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    Im passive person but latley i have not been.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jskell911 View Post
    I think I am the opposite, in that I used to be very passive and had to learn to be aggressive. Having a child, esp one I had to fight for diagnoses and educators with helped.
    You completely took the words out of my mouth.
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    Me, i'm aggressive to a fault. Though I don't necessarily want to be, and I wasn't when I was a child but now as an adult I am.
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  14. 03-23-2009, 09:03 AM #14
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    I am pretty much a go along to get along person, But dont mess with the family lol
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    I am assertive. I am very easy going but I won't be rolled over especially if my kids are concerned.
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