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05-03-2009, 07:52 PM #1Registered User
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Oh Boy!!!
Let me jump for joy!!!!! NOT.... I have been entertaining my ex and his wife for the last 2 hours now....... They are going to be here the rest of the day,,,,,, He works for a moving and storage company. So he's here visiting his one of his sons that is living with me......My son is outside putting together a barbecue. so I'm stuck.lol Thank God for cable TV...... All I want to do is go lay down,,,,, I'm also dealing with bronchitis right now....... I'm hoping the rest of the day goes by fast........
FernYes I'm out of my mind. It's a dark and scary place in there.
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05-03-2009, 07:55 PM #2Master Dollar Stretcher
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Eww...sorry, Fern. You are a better person than I would be in similar circumstances. I guess it depends on how friendly the divorce was, though, and how long ago.
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05-03-2009, 08:15 PM #3Moderator aka AmyBob
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Well,
to you. I'm not sure that would be my idea of an ideal day, so keep your chin up and it will be over soon!
Also, hope you are feeling better!My Blog: http://amysreallife.wordpress.com
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05-03-2009, 08:21 PM #4
I'm not that nice either. I couldn't be that uncomfortable in my own home. I would ask my ex to leave his new wife at home or meet my son somewhere else. I don't think either your son or your ex are considering your feelings. It's not like your son is a small child.
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You are a kind, wonderful person. I would have had my ex out in the doghouse while visiting with my son!
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Been there.....done that! Not pleasant but eventually I decided I liked his new wife better than I did him...lol!
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Cough like your dying and ask the new wife what the symptoms of Swine flu are. HEHEHE. I hope you feel better and your ordeal is over soon.
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Now that does not sound like a fun time at all. I hope you feel better soon.
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05-03-2009, 11:03 PM #9Registered User
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It wasn't fun but I like his wife........ I divorced him. He kept telling me he would if I cut my hair so I cut my hair so f I gained weight so I did that too. He still didn't divore me so on his 29th birthday I had the sherriffs serve him with divorce.....heeheehee. All my children are adults so if I have to deal with him once in a great while I will. I know when I was up in his neck of the woods I stopped in and his wife weighted on me hand and foot. My ddil had that job. I did finely go and lay down. So now I can just relax........
FernYes I'm out of my mind. It's a dark and scary place in there.
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God love ya Fern. I just wanna give you a great big huggg.
I"ll send a little bad kharma 
his way ok lol
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