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05-31-2009, 04:31 PM #1
Another newbie :)
Hey everyone my name is Lotus...or at least that's what I'm going to have you all call me lol, will explain in a minute.
I'm a twenty-three year old at-home mother to two beautiful children. "J" (my son) who is two and a half, and "S" (my daughter) who is a few months shy of being a year old! I love things like natural and green living, fitness and nutrition, reading, writing, activism etc. I'm also a Christian, and also a vegan...there are also some other things I am that I'm not comfy talking about yet lol.
Anyways so I'm here because I'm going to be leaving my husband due to domestic violence in a little over a week. I'm temporarily going to be in a DV women's shelter until I can get a steady job, get some money (he doesn't have me on his bank account), and things like that. So I'm going to definitely be living frugally. It's going to be a bit hard from me. I'm going from a place of extreme comfort (my hubby makes over 100k a year and by 2011 it's supposed to be closer to 300k) to a place where frugal is a *necessity* to live.
This isn't going to be easy, but I know I have to do it for me and my babies.
Anyways I hope to get to know all of you more soon!
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05-31-2009, 04:34 PM #2Registered User
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Hi and welcome from Minnesota!
Dh Bob
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DS (21) at Lakehead U - go Thunderwolves!

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05-31-2009, 04:35 PM #3Moderator
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Glad you found us Lotus; aloha and welcome from Hawaii!!
Sending prayers and good wishes your way as you start on your new journey!!Travel light. The baggage of the past can only hold you back.

“Decluttering isn't just simplifying your life. It's having a vision, setting new priorities and using those notions to get rid of obstacles.”
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05-31-2009, 04:45 PM #4
sending you a hug. be safe. welcome to frugal village!
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05-31-2009, 05:35 PM #5Registered User
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Welcome Lotus. Stay strong, and be safe.
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05-31-2009, 07:22 PM #6
Welcome from PA.
Good luck, you can do it!frugalcountrylady.blogspot.com
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06-01-2009, 01:41 AM #8Moderator
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Hi Lotus -
from Oregon!
Even though your new way of life may be less comfortable in the material sense, having material things is never a good trade-off for your and your children's safety. I wish you all the best as you start this new chapter of your life.-Suzanne
Challenges:
Pound A Week - 237.2 / 227.8 / 135
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06-01-2009, 07:43 AM #9
Welcome to the Village, Lotus!
Keep us updated about your situation. You will find lots of caring people here.
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06-01-2009, 08:03 AM #10
Hi and welcome to Frugal Village from Ontario.
An obstacle is what comes up when you lose sight of your goal.
Daily Fix It, Sort It, or Clean It Challenge
May No-Spend: 9/12
"A penny saved is a penny earned!" 
1 (S), 2 (S), 3 (N), 4 (N), 5 (S), 6 (N), 7 (S), 8 (N), 9 (S), 10 (N), 11 (N), 12 (S), 13 (N), 14 (N), 15 (N), 16 (N), 17 (), 18 (), 19 (), 20 (), 21 (), 22 (), 23 (), 24 (), 25 (), 26 (), 27 (), 28 (), 29 (), 30 (), 31 ()
2012 Lose-A-Pound-A-Week Challenge
I have 12.0 lbs to lose (as of Mon, May 14th, 2012)
Personal
Pay off my Morgage
$102,259.86 (as of May 15th, 2012 - 10 years, 1 months left...partly because we got a new interest rate
)/$108,631.38 (as of Dec. 3rd, 2011 - 12 years, 7 months left)
Pay off my Line of Credit
$6,531.97 (as of May 15th, 2012)/$17,790.73 (as of Dec. 3rd, 2011)
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06-02-2009, 10:16 AM #11
Hi and welcome.
2012 Debt Reduction
(cc#1) Kohl's- P.I.F. (closed)!!!!
(cc#2) Chase- P.I.F. (closed) !!!!!
(cc#3) capital one(mine)- $741.37 /$731.34
(cc#4) amazon-$1,458.47 / $863.94
(cc#5) Kohl's - $606.29 / $687.16(CLOSED!)
(cc#6) capital one(His)- $615.93 /$673.97
(cc#7) CHASE (HIS)- $1,985.14 / $1,055.85
(cc#8) Lowes(His)- $3,355.71 / $2,592.42
(cc#9) Tractor Supply(his)- $3,981.05 / $3,729.95
(cc#10) Visa(mine)- $918.12 / $1,021.83(CLOSED!)
(cc#11) Home Depot(his)-$3,796.87 / $3,375.31
(cc#12) Capital One(mine)- $2,991.98 / $2,967.94
(cc#13) Micro center- $743.61 / $755.60
car pyment- $16,245.30 / $17,773.46
house pymnt- $76,973.95 / $81,360.00
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$14.00 EF
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06-02-2009, 01:32 PM #13
Hello from Missouri. Good luck...you can do it for your precious babies.
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06-02-2009, 01:41 PM #14
from VA.
Stay strong in your situation at home. I will be praying for you. Please update us on your situation.
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06-05-2009, 04:10 PM #15
Aw thanks everyone for the kind words and welcoming <3
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