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    Default Another newbie :)

    Hey everyone my name is Lotus...or at least that's what I'm going to have you all call me lol, will explain in a minute.

    I'm a twenty-three year old at-home mother to two beautiful children. "J" (my son) who is two and a half, and "S" (my daughter) who is a few months shy of being a year old! I love things like natural and green living, fitness and nutrition, reading, writing, activism etc. I'm also a Christian, and also a vegan...there are also some other things I am that I'm not comfy talking about yet lol.

    Anyways so I'm here because I'm going to be leaving my husband due to domestic violence in a little over a week. I'm temporarily going to be in a DV women's shelter until I can get a steady job, get some money (he doesn't have me on his bank account), and things like that. So I'm going to definitely be living frugally. It's going to be a bit hard from me. I'm going from a place of extreme comfort (my hubby makes over 100k a year and by 2011 it's supposed to be closer to 300k) to a place where frugal is a *necessity* to live.

    This isn't going to be easy, but I know I have to do it for me and my babies.

    Anyways I hope to get to know all of you more soon!

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    Hi and welcome from Minnesota!
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    Glad you found us Lotus; aloha and welcome from Hawaii!!

    Sending prayers and good wishes your way as you start on your new journey!!
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    sending you a hug. be safe. welcome to frugal village!

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    Welcome Lotus. Stay strong, and be safe.

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    Welcome from PA.
    Good luck, you can do it!
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    Glad to have you here.
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    Hi Lotus - from Oregon!

    Even though your new way of life may be less comfortable in the material sense, having material things is never a good trade-off for your and your children's safety. I wish you all the best as you start this new chapter of your life.
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    Welcome to the Village, Lotus!
    Keep us updated about your situation. You will find lots of caring people here.

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    Hi and welcome to Frugal Village from Ontario.
    An obstacle is what comes up when you lose sight of your goal.

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    Hi and welcome.
    2012 Debt Reduction

    (cc#1) Kohl's- P.I.F. (closed)!!!!

    (cc#2) Chase- P.I.F. (closed) !!!!!

    (cc#3) capital one(mine)- $741.37 /$731.34

    (cc#4) amazon-$1,458.47 / $863.94

    (cc#5) Kohl's - $606.29 / $687.16(CLOSED!)

    (cc#6) capital one(His)- $615.93 /$673.97

    (cc#7) CHASE (HIS)- $1,985.14 / $1,055.85

    (cc#8) Lowes(His)- $3,355.71 / $2,592.42


    (cc#9) Tractor Supply(his)- $3,981.05 / $3,729.95

    (cc#10) Visa(mine)- $918.12 / $1,021.83(CLOSED!)

    (cc#11) Home Depot(his)-$3,796.87 / $3,375.31

    (cc#12) Capital One(mine)- $2,991.98 / $2,967.94

    (cc#13) Micro center- $743.61 / $755.60

    car pyment- $16,245.30 / $17,773.46

    house pymnt- $76,973.95 / $81,360.00




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    :welcome3: from MA
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    Hello from Missouri. Good luck...you can do it for your precious babies.

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    from VA.

    Stay strong in your situation at home. I will be praying for you. Please update us on your situation.

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    Aw thanks everyone for the kind words and welcoming <3

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