Anyone want to join me.....

**pop goes the weasel** · 07-07-2009, 06:40 AM

I'm having the National Poor Me Day today. I hate those days when I feel worthless and unwanted. You name it, it's probably on my list. Ok I'm going back to bed and pull the covers over my head.

**freebs** · 07-07-2009, 07:37 AM

during teh summer i feel like that alot as the kids and i stay home alot! we dont have a vehicle with ac and when the actual temps are 105+ we dont go anywhere. There are days i just have to get out to keep my sanity. HUGS!

**frugalwarrior** · 07-07-2009, 07:43 AM

You missed it. Mine was a couple of days ago. Cars,wisdom teeth,childish ungrateful Dh's,expensive medical bills,college cost,dog shots.Weight bouncing up and down I go forward. Don't get sad,get mad. Dig in. It's always and I mean always something around here. I invite you to read my past few blogs if you want to feel better. I know you were looking for tea and sympathy but I'm all out I can only drink water on my diet.LOL

**tigo** · 07-07-2009, 09:37 AM

I'm with you in spirit. I get tired of worrying about the finances, trying to put a happy face on when we are dealing with legal issues with the foster kids (don't want to negatively impact any possible future relationship with their bio parent(s) in case they get their act together when all I really want to do is yell at the parents)dealing with my health (no- really- I am okay- do I look like I need help with this or that

). Sigh thank you for starting this thread, I needed to vent a bit.

**pop goes the weasel** · 07-07-2009, 09:40 AM

no not looking for tea, it gives me heartburn and sympathy. just needed someone to talk to. sorry

**Debbie-cat** · 07-07-2009, 09:43 AM

You are not worthless and not unwanted. We love your input on FV! I have really appreciate quite a few of your comments and suggestions. It is okay to be down in the dumps but never feel like you are not wanted..... you wouldn't have been put on this earth if your weren't.

**pop goes the weasel** · 07-07-2009, 10:56 AM

Thanks for the inspiration. I know there's folks out there worse off then me but sometimes things just get to be too much at times like we all know and it's nice to have a place to come and just dump I guess you'd call it. I did manage to crawl out from under the covers and drywall around the window in the bathroom. (Dh put in a new window, 3 more to go.) I don't know if it's the way its suppose to be but it looks better than it did. lol. I just about didn't do it. I opened the drywall mud up and it was moldy so I wasn't sure about it. Thanks again.

**jlaporte** · 07-07-2009, 11:06 AM

i hear ya. been feeling the same for a few days now. used to feel like this alot but it goes back n forth with me. but i try to fake it til i make it. put a stepford smile on my face and get things done and eventually i feel better. but yea last 2 days my aches n pains have been so much been over sleeping and feeling like crap!

**closedpurse** · 07-07-2009, 11:31 AM

I am feeling pretty much the same so you are not alone. Sometimes all the pressures of family, money worries and self doubt conspire to make you feel you are worthless. Thankfully, that self doubt does drift away. Sometimes you need to just let yourself feel these emotions before you can get on to the next set!!

**frugalwarrior** · 07-07-2009, 11:45 AM

Goodness,I wasn't trying to pick on ya. Just trying to be silly w/ the tea comment. Everyone has off days. Hugs to you. that is one thing I don't like about the internet communication;tone is so often misunderstood.

**missyali** · 07-07-2009, 02:34 PM

congratulations on the drywall. sometimes you just have to do it. i'm sure it looks great. you dh should be very happy to have you! hope tomorrow is a SUPER day!

**NikoSan999** · 07-07-2009, 02:53 PM

I'll join you. Way I'm feeling it is real close to can't get much worse other than health or death. Depression is a horrible thing. Don't know that I ever believed so much in it before it happened to me or I should say us. I also thought panic attacks were bull. Not anymore.
Sometimes I think I understand why some people say I wish I could go to sleep and not wake up but not quite there...yet.
I know there is still more to come and I'm dreading it. We're dreading it.
Ok, I guess this is more than you asked for. Hopefully the rest of your week will be better.
Hugs to you

**Nana2two** · 07-07-2009, 10:56 PM

Must be in the air last week it was me It was a poor poor me week. I cried abut everything, nothing could go right , every body was looking at like i had lost my mind, i was just ready to move way , Why i have not a clue. I gues just every day life caught up with me....

**Goodwin17** · 07-07-2009, 11:21 PM

Hang in there. I've been having a lot of those days lately. Hugs!

**lovestolaugh** · 07-08-2009, 08:44 AM

I am right there with you. I have been feeling uglier, fatter and poorer lately. I know part of it is PMS but most of it is stress. I get so tired of playing with the budget, robbing Peter to pay Paul, being the "bad" guy in the family and just overall worry. All I wanted to do yesterday was sit and cry. My dh just shakes his head and walks away. Probably a good thing because he has a tendency to want to "fix" things instead of just being empathetic. It's a "man" thing. Today, I don't feel much better. I have a few things I have to get done today but other than that I will probably be lazy. I don't do very well without routine and since I work for the school system, we are all on vacation. UGH! I hate long vacations! Don't have any money to go anywhere. Trying to figure out how much I will need for back to school supplies and clothes for the kids. It's always something.

Thanks for letting me vent! It's good to know I am not the only one out there struggling. I hope we all have a better day today!