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    For this young man. His name is Chris I have known him since he was 3. He use to live next door to me. He also has 3 brothers. Both parents are druggies. They use to climb out their window and come to my house to eat. Their mom was locked up in ward B. She fried her brain. One day their dad asked if I would watch them so I did. He never came back. I finely got ahold of their aunt who came and got them. Fast forward. He joined the Marines and did 2 tours in Iraq. When his auunt passed away he got out to help his uncle with his brothers. Here is the problem he is having problems with PTSD. They are rating him 100% disabled because of it. He will be getting the help he needs now. But he needs all the good throught and prays he can get. He's having a hard time with it. And no family surport for him. None of his family understands what has happened to him and they really don't care. I care alot. We do a lot of emails back and forth. He's 26.
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    Fern - how lucky the brothers were that they had you in their lives!! Of course he'll be in my prayers. PTSD is so serious - and can be helped with treatment. Mahalo for being his champion!!
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    I'm so sorry for this young man and his brothers. What a sad situation. I'll be thinking of them.
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    Sending positive thoughts their way

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    Sending good thoughts their way.
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    Sending prayers and positive thoughts. And wondering if you aren't one of the answered prayers.
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    sending prayers and positive thoughts. He will Thank you for the support you are offering him.
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    Chris and his brothers will be in my prayers.

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    I'll include this young man in prayers as well as you. It sounds like God put you in his life for a reason!
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    Mu thoughts and prayers are heading their way, what a sad situation.
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    Good thoughts, prayers.....he has you, that is good.
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    How fortunate they had you as a next door neighbor. Probably the only person who has cared about them. My prayers are with him and his brothers and to you for being such a caring person!
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    Oh Fern, that is horrible. You are such a good person. Prayers and good wishes will be said for Chris.
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    Praying for Chris, and for his brothers.
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    Sending good thoughts and prayers!!

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