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    Default Feeling panicky- bought a new car

    It has been 2 yrs and we have paid off all of our debt except our mortgage. Our van was still in running condition but beginning to have some problems. We wanted to have a paid for vehicle for our teenage son to drive. Soooo, we went ahead and bought a used Ford Escape. We didn't trade in the van. We can afford the payments easily, but it has been so long since we have spent that kind of money (gotten into that kind of debt) that I came home and had a panic attack and then had a seizure ( I have a brain tumor/seizure disorder). Things worked out liked we planned, but I can't shake the panicky feeling of getting into debt again.

    I just wish I could settle down and enjoy our "new to us" car. We will be letting our teenager drive the van when he gets his license. He will pay his own insurance as soon as he gets a job.

    Being frugal has worked so well for me that I hate doing anything Un-frugal.

    Thanks for listening to my whine.....
    Truck paid off 12/07(paid in full)
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    cc#3 $2400 paid in full
    cc#4 $6337 paid in full
    cc#5 $1500 paid in full

    Coupon savings: Jan 2011 $200
    Feb 2011 $100

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    sounds like buyers remorse.

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    It'll be alright - just focus on paying it off as quickly as possible!!
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    You could make a long-term game out of paying off your car early...make short-term goals like "I'll save 20% of our grocery budget this month and we'll put that money toward the car payment" and see how quickly the payments go down.

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    You are doing so well being frugal. I'm not sure what kind of interest rate you got on the loan. Sounds like you have good credit so the interest rate is probably very good.

    Sit back relax and enjoy your new purchase. I'm sure you'll pay it off early!
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    I always get sick to my stomach after we purchase a large item. If you were unfrugal, then it wouldn't be a big deal, right? It will be fine, I'm sure you did your research and got a good purchase. It's something that is needed, so it's money well spent!

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    Enjoy the new vehicle........am sure you will be glad you bought it.
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    Thanks for the support. It's not really buyers remorse, it's just that I have a very, very hard time making large purchases. I usually won't spend even $50 without thinking it over first.....I love the car and we can easily afford the payments. I did my research and we got a very good deal, but I have panic over spending. Ah well. I'm starting to settle down and try to enjoy it.
    Truck paid off 12/07(paid in full)
    Van paid off 2/09
    Orthodontist(paid in full 2/09)
    Furniture paid in full 7/10

    cc#1 $700 Paid In Full
    cc#2 $1000 Paid In Full
    cc#3 $2400 paid in full
    cc#4 $6337 paid in full
    cc#5 $1500 paid in full

    Coupon savings: Jan 2011 $200
    Feb 2011 $100

    Emergency Fund $1000

    Vacation Fund $1500

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