Need Prayers

**mh3rdwheel** · 11-13-2011, 11:12 PM

My niece tomorrow has to go before the principle about alegations about abuse, (He put his hands on both of her hips, also he mad remarks to a girl about her weight and calling her a cow in front of my niece. My niece I love, my dear hubby and I will go to Bridgeport, Oh to her school with her parents and stand by her side.

What do you think of this, my niece is 15 1/2.

**mh3rdwheel** · 11-13-2011, 11:27 PM

Originally Posted by mh3rdwheel

My niece tomorrow has to go before the principle about alegations about abuse, (He put his hands on both of her hips, also he mad remarks to a girl about her weight and calling her a cow in front of my niece. My niece I love, my dear hubby and I will go to Bridgeport, Oh to her school with her parents and stand by her side.

What do you think of this, my niece is 15 1/2.

please help

**grneyegrl** · 11-14-2011, 12:04 AM

id call the police..no one should be putting their hands on her, much less on her hips..

if it were me my father would catch him off school property and give him a "talking to" and he would not bother (her/me again),,i need to add my father was/ has a permit to carry a weapon..not that it would be used but the possiblity is here..

i cant belive this is being blown off..

**Nishu** · 11-14-2011, 12:18 AM

Is she accusing the principal that she's going before? I would not allow it! Absolutely not! If he is touching her inappropriately, I'd contact the police. They might not be able to help, I'm not sure how they would handle an allegation that he was touching her hips. You might bring it before the superintendent, without the principal present.

I would not, under any circumstances, make her speak against this man right in front of him. No way. Do'nt make her do that.

Good luck. i hope things go well.

**mh3rdwheel** · 11-14-2011, 12:20 AM

Originally Posted by grneyegrl

id call the police..no one should be putting their hands on her, much less on her hips..

if it were me my father would catch him off school property and give him a "talking to" and he would not bother (her/me again),,i need to add my father was/ has a permit to carry a weapon..not that it would be used but the possiblity is here..

i cant belive this is being blown off..

I am trying to find out who this guy is. My niece does not lie. I know a fiew guys at the school who might know the name. My niece is a great girl, the police maybe called in (unfortunately have you heard of the case with Sarah Jessica Parker and her husband and the twins with they had with a surogate) this is the police department we deal with unfortunately.

I will update you. I am very angry.

**Nishu** · 11-14-2011, 12:27 AM

So it's another student doing this? I was thinking it was the principal. I'm glad you and your husband are going to support her. Don't get discouraged if the school doesn't handle it well. Sometimes they're not very good at handling cases like this.

**mh3rdwheel** · 11-14-2011, 12:27 AM

Originally Posted by Nishu

Is she accusing the principal that she's going before? I would not allow it! Absolutely not! If he is touching her inappropriately, I'd contact the police. They might not be able to help, I'm not sure how they would handle an allegation that he was touching her hips. You might bring it before the superintendent, without the principal present.

I would not, under any circumstances, make her speak against this man right in front of him. No way. Do'nt make her do that.

Good luck. i hope things go well.

I do not think that it is the principle, I talked to Cheyenne for about an hour or so about this she would not tell us who it is, she is in cheerleading, plus basketball, track, etc. this guy has something to do with sports (Ithink), no sure, I will hopefully know tomorrow.

I hope the school does not push this under the rug, I will not allow it.

I know people in the news station, plus a few other people, he will not touch another girl, bikers do not like guys who do this. I will keep you posted.

**mh3rdwheel** · 11-14-2011, 12:29 AM

Originally Posted by Nishu

Is she accusing the principal that she's going before? I would not allow it! Absolutely not! If he is touching her inappropriately, I'd contact the police. They might not be able to help, I'm not sure how they would handle an allegation that he was touching her hips. You might bring it before the superintendent, without the principal present.

I would not, under any circumstances, make her speak against this man right in front of him. No way. Do'nt make her do that.

Good luck. i hope things go well.

I don't know how it will go. I am still trying to find out the time.

**mauimagic** · 11-14-2011, 12:30 AM

Agree that the police should be called in and a report filed. Child Protective Services should also be informed. The parents/guardians should be filing a complaint IN WRITING with the school board. Your niece should not confront the principal. I am so glad that you will be there but please see that all the above is done also. And keep us informed. Situations like this make my blood boil.

**mh3rdwheel** · 11-14-2011, 12:39 AM

Originally Posted by mauimagic

Agree that the police should be called in and a report filed. Child Protective Services should also be informed. The parents/guardians should be filing a complaint IN WRITING with the school board. Your niece should not confront the principal. I am so glad that you will be there but please see that all the above is done also. And keep us informed. Situations like this make my blood boil.

I am sorry it is not the principle but someone else, I have been trying to talk to my sil and ex bil, I am very worried. I wish I knew who this guy is.

If he is not stopped who know what will happen. I just found out that Cheyenne is not the first girl this teacher put his hands on.

I am hoping that this will be resolved. NO ONE SHOULD PUT THERE HANDS ON A CHILD UNDER THE AGE OF 18 THAT IS NOT THERE PARENT. I will be talking to my sil and niece about getting ahold of the police and the prosecuting attorney.

**mauimagic** · 11-14-2011, 12:46 AM

Regardless of who did it - I still stand by my suggestions - and if there is a meeting it should be recorded. Please have them put their concerns IN WRITING - canoot stress this enough.

**peanut** · 11-14-2011, 09:52 AM

OK. Here's the scoop. My DSIS was inappropriately 'handled' by a physics teacher in high school. My parents went to the principal and nothing happened. They went to the police. At that time if they had gone to court DSIS would have had a harder time than the perpetrator. It was the way it was back then. Instead, they went to the school board and had him fired. My DSIS moved to another province to finish her high school and continue on with her education.

The teacher? He ended up teaching driver education with an outfit in town. He should have been locked up away from anyone under the age of 18. He was a menace. He was smart and ran a Christian Youth Group at the school too. All the girls knew you didn't let yourself get caught alone with him. I wondered why. When I found out, I was the one to spill the beans to Mom and Dad, who went ballistic. Dad was the only person who was able to effect change in that situation.

Not Mom, who was actually friends with this guy and stunned by the revelation of what his true nature was. In the end she and I met this guy in a cafe in town, her with a hidden microphone and tape recorder, and nailed him saying he could do what he damn well pleased with any girl he wanted. No one was going to catch him on it. And he said my DSIS "deserved it"...for what? Being smart? That's what he was doing...picking off all the smart girls and 'deflowering' them one by one... ruining their lives...

So...long story short...GO TO THE POLICE! Things nowadays are a little different than 35 years ago.

**HappyMama** · 11-14-2011, 10:29 AM

I use to be a publicly elected school official and at one time a CASA for D Violence in the court system , I would get a lawyer involved and make the school board involved legally in writing ( ie requesting a meeting from your attorney) . If and when meeting is scheduled , if legal in your state ( find out legal requirements ) have it taped. Ask for the school board President to have to be at the meeting or closed door session with school board officials , families attorney and your relatives present. Don't have your niece at meeting , she does not need to be put through that.

Go to the top. Yes there is chain of command , not in this case. I saw to much covered up over the years. . Hold the officials feet to the fire, the legal way. Go to the police, after legal advice and file a report. PM if needed.

**marlas1too** · 11-14-2011, 11:41 AM

OMG Linda i will sure to be praying for you and yours--don't let that sleaze ball get away with it

**shoiji** · 11-14-2011, 12:48 PM

I think it is great you are going to support your neice. Try to reinforce how proud you are of what she is doing. That she did nothing wrong. Definately call the police.