i am going thru this as well. a friend i have had over 20 yrs and who been a support thru a lot of "guy crap" has completely changed towards me now that i have someone good in my life. it really hurts that she is not happy for me but i've pretty much made up my mind to just let it go. i guess she isn't the person i thought she was.... if she only wants to be around when i am down and struggling i don't think that is a good friend. it makes me wonder if she was getting something out of me hurting. and that she isn't getting something out of me being happy. ? either way it still hurts me. i've been happy for her, why can't i get the same from her?