Guess it my turn to get rid of some anger

**fernykins** · 05-05-2005, 01:19 PM

Well I'm home have my grandsons too. I couldn't even get 1 day of rest after being in the hospital. I don't fault my son. He's stuck between a rock and a hard spot. He spent Friday -- Monday at the hospital. with his son before and after surgery. Good dad. His boss wanted him to go back to work so he asks the mother to stay with him. She did off and on. He gets released Mon evening and she starts to pitch a @@$%^&*( about doing it. took him out of the hospital and dumped both boys on her mother so she could party. The other grandmother is working 2 jobs. My son is working long hours to make ends meet. Mother is not working at all. What is wrong with some people now days????

I have no infomation on his surgery or his next Dr appt . I think his wound is infected. I did call the clinic and got his appt time and date. But its the wound I am worryed about. Mother has all the paper work, and wh know where she's at. I'm 48. and this hospital stay was the worse one yet. Oh well got it off my chest so now its back to taking care of bussiness. Fern

**Mom23boys** · 05-05-2005, 01:26 PM

It feels good to release your anger. Just vent all you want. We will be here for you.

**Dixie** · 05-05-2005, 01:38 PM

**Darlene** · 05-05-2005, 01:57 PM

I'm sorry for all the drama Fern, that mother should be mothering.

Please take good care of yourself and rest as often as you can.
I'll be thinking about you.

**MandiDawn** · 05-05-2005, 03:12 PM

I'm sorry for your luck. At least those boys will always remember you being there for them when the needed it. The mother will get what's coming to her one day.

**jlxian** · 05-05-2005, 03:36 PM

Let loose on us, Fern. Its a wonderful place for that!

I hope you can get a better feeling about your grandson's situation soon --- I know you are worried!

**duckduckgoose007** · 05-05-2005, 09:10 PM

Fern,

Hope you & your Grandson are feeling better soon.

Family is hard to take sometimes.

Sending good thoughts your way.

**Julia Kimber** · 05-06-2005, 01:27 AM

Julia

**Mommy2five** · 05-06-2005, 02:49 AM

Sorry to hear you are dealing with so much! I agree with what the other ladies said and I hope you are taking care of yourself too!

**Michele Annette** · 05-06-2005, 08:58 AM

I'm so sorry Fern!

**dolphin** · 05-06-2005, 10:28 AM

Fern I'm so sorry and hopeing that your grandson and you are feeling much better soon.

**dolphin** · 05-06-2005, 10:39 AM

Fern, just read your other post and saw why dgs was in the hospital.

My oldest ds had a burst appendix and was operated on and sent home after 10 days. After 3 days home we had to take him back for another surgery due to an infection and he fought that infection in the hospital for another 11 days. They had to leave the second surgery partially open to drain and I had to pack it every day for about 10 days.

So why am I telling you this? Check his temperature. If there is any fever at all you need to get him into the ER NOW!

**fernykins** · 05-06-2005, 10:50 AM

I'm taking him to the Dr today. and my Dr appt today too.will let everyone know after we see the dr

Fern

**Michele Annette** · 05-06-2005, 11:00 AM

I wish you the best today Fern!

**fernykins** · 05-06-2005, 05:43 PM

Well we're back from the Dr's. Its just a little infected so now we do the antibiotic thing and take him back on Monday. It does seam like when it rains its pours. I know I took care of him then I fell apart, and had to be taken care of...... He's doing better and I am doing fair. I guess they are right one day at a time and things half to get better........ Fern