People

**Julia Kimber** · 10-03-2005, 03:21 AM

People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a
lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to
do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a
need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to
assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and
support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for
a reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your
part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes
they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to
take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our
desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been
answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn
has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience
of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have
never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns
to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.

LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and
areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is
clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life.....