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  1. 01-21-2006, 01:02 AM #1
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    Well, ladies, it's been quite an interesting month.

    Most of you don't know me that well on a personal level, but I've been trying to deal with a real mess of a marriage for quite some time. My husband is a good man and a very kind person... if the universe continues to rotate specifically around him and he doesn't have to do anything. We've been working on trying to solve things for quite some time, but in the end, it came down to the fact that neither of us were happy with each other anymore. So we decided to take a break from each other. I packed up and moved out.

    I moved to a city two hours away and currently I live with my brother and his roommate. I have a new job, working as a receptionist at an insurance office. I also started a relationship with my best friend, and it's going along wonderfully. I feel healthier, livelier, and fresher than I ever have before. In short, I am happy, after nearly three years of misery.

    What will happen in the future? I'm not sure. I don't think I'll be returning to my husband. I have found a life that I love here. Things just seem to be falling into place.

    Bright Blessings!
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  2. 01-21-2006, 01:06 AM #2
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    Hey you!! Welcome back!!!

    So sorry you've had a rough time Do what makes you happy.No one wants to live an unhappy life
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  3. 01-21-2006, 01:19 AM #3
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    Glad to see you back. Sorry to hear things have been rough of late. Wish only the best for your future.
    ~~ Missy ~~

    Planting and raising an urban homestead in the middle of Downtown big city right at the foot of the Rocky Mountains!

    Zone 5 Colorado Springs, CO USA
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  4. 01-21-2006, 06:07 AM #4
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    It's always rough when a marraige is not doing well. It's hard on both. But it seems like you've both trying your best.
    It was a tough decision to end my first marraige- considering I had 3 small children and I was in nursing school full-time. But the children and I were better off for it. Not saying it was easy.
    In hindsight, I think we both needed a little growing up to do- which my dh2 helped me to do.
    DH2 and I separated for 6months when were married for 7 yrs. It was the most saddest time of my life. But the good news is... we both realized that we wanted and loved each other. So this time away from you dh will tell you what you need to know.
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  5. 01-21-2006, 09:58 AM #5
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    Welcome bad Nadar!

    You sound so happy & hopefull. I'm glad you have found happiness and wish for continued blessings for you in your new life

    Stick around dang it! I missed your posts
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    Hi

    I have been there. I wish you much luck and happieness on your changed journey.
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  7. 01-21-2006, 10:19 AM #7
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    Best wishes for happiness in your new life!
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  8. 01-21-2006, 10:33 AM #8
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    Sorry about your rough times but cudos to you for your courage to try to work things out and then beginning a whole new life for yourself. Good luck and best wishes in this new stage of your life!
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    Welcome back Nada!

    Congrats on the weight loss! You are doing awesome!!!
    ~*Michelle*~

    ~Wife to Rick since Dec. 19, 1986~
    ~Mother to Richard, 23, Chris, 21, and Dakota, 17~
    ~Mother-in-law to Amber, wife of Richard~
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    Hope the bad times are behind you for good.
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  11. 01-21-2006, 11:43 AM #11
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    Good for you, you deserve it!
    6 yr. Breast Cancer Survivor!
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    Best of luck to you!
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    I admire your pluck! You just go on out there and do what it takes to be happy! I am sorry you had to go through this upheaval but I am thrilled that you are finding life wonderful again! You go girl!!
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    Good luck

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    2. Work on his taxes-done and mailed
    3. Track expenses - have to really work on this one
    4. Find more freebies
    5. find ways to reduce expenses since won't have a job after this month
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    Good luck

    Kellie
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    2012 Challenges
    Reading challenge 6/52
    Lose a pound challenge 3/50
    Homestead challenge - Clean out gazebo
    Home Project challenge - Plant garden/work on bedroom
    Gocery Budget Challenge - 0/300
    Coupon Saving challenge - 82.23

    April Goals
    1. Clean out dad's apartment - partially done
    2. Work on his taxes-done and mailed
    3. Track expenses - have to really work on this one
    4. Find more freebies
    5. find ways to reduce expenses since won't have a job after this month
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