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  1. 12-13-2006, 10:23 PM #1
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    Default Hmmm should I

    Give my husband what he want??? That is a big question... He wants a divorce. We have been seperated for 11/2 years now. I cant work things out with him. to much anger, hate drug abuse. We've been married 21 year......... Well its something to ponder.
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  2. 12-13-2006, 10:57 PM #2
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    Hmmm I would sign the papers if he paid for it............. what are your reasons for not getting a divorce?
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  3. 12-13-2006, 11:19 PM #3
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    I would definitely give him his divorce if he's paying and if that's all there is to it Fern. I would think you deserve better.

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  4. 12-14-2006, 01:30 PM #4
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    I would talk to a lawyer and find out what you are entitiled to. Make him keep an insurance policy with you as beneficiary, does he have a 401k plan or pension? Make sure you take a piece of that too. If he wants this, he can pay for it.
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    I'd go for the divorce. Just make sure you protect yourself and get what you are entitled to.
    On 11-22-85 I married the man of my dreams.
    On 01-13-89 I gave birth to the love of my life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jerseygirl View Post
    I would talk to a lawyer and find out what you are entitiled to. Make him keep an insurance policy with you as beneficiary, does he have a 401k plan or pension? Make sure you take a piece of that too. If he wants this, he can pay for it.
    And like Prairierose sadi, you deserve better.
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  7. 12-14-2006, 02:32 PM #7
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    I would get the divorce. Hugs!
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    I would get the divorce too but make sure you get EVERYTHING you entitled too.
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    i think i would make sure my fanny was covered. then let him file away
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  10. 12-14-2006, 11:43 PM #10
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    If he wants it, let him pay for it but as everybody else has said get all your ducks in a row.
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