Was your first baby well-planned or a pleasant "oops"?

**Ani** · 01-20-2007, 10:52 PM

I'm curious how many of us planned out the conception of our first child, and to which of us the child came as a happy surprise, or a pleasant "oops".

Personally, my baby-on-the-way was well-planned, but was conceived more quickly than expected -- we can trace it back to the first time we tried! lol He was anxious to get here, I think!

So what about you?

**bumplett** · 01-20-2007, 11:00 PM

1st was a very welcomed oops ~
2nd was planned

**frugalfriend** · 01-20-2007, 11:09 PM

Well planned (all three).

**cheappearls** · 01-20-2007, 11:11 PM

Our 1st was a not trying but not stopping it baby. haha. 2nd was planned.

**mrsvargas** · 01-20-2007, 11:42 PM

First was a complete suprise (was only married 2 mos when I got pregnant), second was planned

**fernykins** · 01-20-2007, 11:53 PM

Numbers 1 & 2 were planed #3 & 4 were oops............... but not unhappy about them........... Now my girls I got the easy way........ State of Ca gave them to me.........
Fern

**MrsClaus** · 01-21-2007, 01:07 AM

None of ours were planned.

**kmjincs** · 01-21-2007, 01:14 AM

Pleasant surprise

**danni** · 01-21-2007, 01:19 AM

All 5 were great surprises and was either on the pill, using condoms or had that shot that lasts 3 months. God obviously had different plans than I did.

**Dixie** · 01-21-2007, 01:32 AM

None of my kids were planned, by me. Like Danni said, they were planned by God.

**thriftstorequeen** · 01-21-2007, 02:08 AM

None of our five children were planned, just wonderful blessings given to us by the Lord!

**Neeley** · 01-21-2007, 02:56 AM

I have yet to see an "oops" made by God - and that is who planned each of our children for my husband and I.

**Michelle** · 01-21-2007, 06:45 AM

Both were well planned.

**JustJoy** · 01-21-2007, 08:10 AM

My one and only was a happy 'oops.' We planned on waiting at least two years after we got married to have a baby. I ended up PG 3 months after we were married.... LOL!