I am upset but for a dumb stupid out of my mind reason!

**Cricketlegs** · 02-25-2007, 02:16 PM

The trip is WON through dh's current dealership and it is a couple of people from different dealerships going at the same time like a package deal. If dh leaves his dealership his trip goes away.

As for the GM points. His new boss would have to ok it and if HE is the one getting all the points now he won't want to share THOUSANDS of points with dh that spend like dollars. 1 dollar is one point. It is like cash in the bank. I have a washer and dryer worth over $2500 and a tv worth almost $5000 and a fridge worth $2000 that I did NOT pay one cent for.

So as you can see I like my points!

I really do but if dh is making the big bucks it makes it moot right? We will have more money, dh said if he switches jobs we will take a nice family vacation this summer instead which I would love to do.

I just want my dh to be happy and well paid for the excellent job he does.

I am just scared and I really wanted that trip. I mean there is was and then 10 hours later--there it goes!

I know that if the money is right he needs to take the new job with no complaining from me!

I can be a team player! LOL

**Mom23boys** · 02-25-2007, 06:55 PM

I hope that you and your DH are able to find the right solution that will benefit you both. I know less stress would be my option.

**miss_thrifty** · 02-26-2007, 10:27 AM

HUUGGSSS going your way.
Just sending you some good vibes on whatever you decide Dear!!!!

**Cricketlegs** · 02-26-2007, 10:32 AM

Well thank you, I do feel a lot better now that the shock has worn off!

When you dh is the sole money maker and he starts talking about a new job it scares the pants off you!

I am sure we will be fine and my dh does NOT make rash decisions. He is a very level headed man who cares more about his family than himself.

I trust him 100%.

Thank you gals for letting me talk about it with you and not add more to his burden than what we HAD to discuss.