Crazy ex’s and the crap they bring to the world

[emortis13]

I need to rant about something.

So, my Fiancé once had this girl friend about three years ago. She was crazy. She stalked him. Following him to work and to his house, friends houses… you get the picture. She would insult him and putting him down. She was a very mean and ugly person. Evil. I have seen pictures. If the eyes truly are the windows to the soul, then she’s going to hell.

Nick would try to brake up with her but she wouldn’t let him. Nicks kind of passive… so he eventually was able to brake up but she wouldn’t admit it. She came up with all sorts of lies like how she was supposedly pregnant… umm…ya…. Three years and counting…wow that must be some kid… she would spread rumors and stalk him around the collage. Intentionally make friends with his friends.

So, about a year and a half passes and she continues to stalk and torment him occasionally. I meet nick at a party. Bla bla bla you know how it all goes…then about 6 months later I met nicks ex whose friends with his supposedly best friend. Ok. First off, I wouldn’t associate with anyone who would hang out with the crazy Ex. I glance at her and think to myself wow, evil. I didn’t even know who she was at the time. A few more months pass and I hear from someone I know that the crazy was gossiping about how I’m ugly. Ok, that’s her option. Whatever. I am unaffected by other peoples bullshit 90% of the time. Besides, if I walk into my apartment complex carrying heavy stuff and there are guys in the hallway; they almost always stop what there doing to help me and then try to chat me up after words. People walk up to nick who when were at places to ask if I’m with him… I don’t think that’s ugly at all. But I digress.

Then a week later nick and me see the crazy exs mommy dearest in the grocery store. She follows me home. She sits out side my apartment complex for 30 minutes before I call security and tell them about my stalker. They usher her off the property. I never see her again.

This women followed me home. I am now annoyed. This becomes my problem as well instead of just his.

One of crazy exs friends try to make nice nice with me, I didn’t know that she’s crazys friend. I find out. She never speaks to me again. Good plan. Don’t want to move me up from annoyed to aggregated do we? The friend then decided to tell people that I’m a satanic devil worshiper. It gets to my bible banger dad somehow… this aggregates me.

Today, I accidentally logged into Nicks myspace account. He never logged out and it was my computer. I find that I have a new message. I click on it and it’s from the crazy ex… I’m confused; I look around and discover that I’m on nicks account… pause…Crazy ex?? I read the message, nick wouldn’t care.

Its all about how she misses him but she doesn’t want to hit on him because she just got out of a horrible relationship were she was left pregnant… gee this sounds close to something else... she talks about how she and nick and his supposedly best friend should have a game night. She goes to great lengths to say nothing about me. At all. Talks about how she misses this and that about nick…

Aggravated moves up to pissed off.

I just want her to go away and let us live our lives in peace. It has been about a year and a half since I met nick. And yet she still persists. I want to ring her crazy fat neck. *sigh* I don’t like being mad.

End rant.

[Libby]

I feel your pain, however Im the stalkee if you will. The best thing you can do is have a serious talk with Nick and try to think of ways 'together' on how you can rid your lives of her. My advice, and it gets re-affirmed alot on here (thanks ladies!) is to IGNORE her. When she sees she cant get a reaction out of either of you she will move on to 'greener' pastures and find someone else to stalk erm....harass ... erm, uh, um...date

Dont let her get to you nor under your skin, thats exactly what it sounds like she wants and if you two break up shes ready to dive right back in. Plus this is what I think, if you give in and let her get to you, you're letting her win, playing RIGHT into her lil game plan...and thats a no no right?

Good Luck!

[paintedsky]

Ignore. Has he outright shut her down? If he hasn't he should. I used to have a crazy ex stalker who still occasionally texts me after 2 whole years!! Less frequently now since now I don't reply back or anything no matter how bad it aggravates me. If you reply back you feed their attention even if they make you bad. He needs to first shut her down and than off. Maybe she's bipolar? My ex was but I never knew till we broke up around 6 months when he acted all crazy.

[emortis13]

Has he outright shut her down?

omg, yes. he has made it very clear that he dose not want her around him. In fact, Nick is so nice that he has never ever told anyone to ever go away except this person.