Oh Rosie I'm so sorry to hear that...besides you and your DH does she have a good support system? Is her DH a good help(sometimes men have a hard time with this kind of stuff)...my thoughts and prayers go out to her and you as well...I'm willing to bet she is a great mama! It sounds as if you live in paradise(don't lugh but I feel God give Us those perfect places on earth where you can feel His love,I feel this way at the lake lot, has to do with nature). I'm working on my weight as well...one day at a time. I still love the girls on GF as well...but the funny thing is...I have not shopped for clothing in over a month,since I took a break...so I have extended it...not sure how long...it is nice not to buy things or stuff.