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    Big Hugs to you.....if your decision is going to be a little later rather than a little sooner can you not get pain meds for your dog from your vet? I have known other people who's dogs have had cancer and they were able to get something to ease their pain while they had a few days to say their goodbyes.
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    My heart goes out to you. If you are questioning if it would be better to give your pet peace and no pain then it is time.

    It sounds as if the cancer is spreading rapidly and the things that make a dogs life wonderful are diminishing.

    I think it would be better to give your pet some dignity before Christmas then to wake up regretting that you waited too long. It sounds as if your children are old enough to understand the loss but also old enough to understand the responsibility of loving with kindness.

    Perhaps making an ornament in honor of your pet would help them remember the love they can give for years to come. It won't be easy, it never is, but it can be a blessing.

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    Sumacaroni, knowing when it's time is tough. I've always said, "I'd rather they go a day to soon than an hour too late" The only bits of advice I can give you is, think of your dogs quality of life and how they are acting. Put your emotions aside and Honestly ask yourself, am I keeping him here for me and my feelings or for his benefit?
    If you think that he's happy and enjoying life as he was before, then consult your vet about pain management options. There are options for neuralgia pain and osteo pain. A fentanyl patch, tramadol and gabapentin are good pain control drugs for pain, and are relatively inexpensive. Lidoderm patches can help at the site however may not be an option given the tumor presence.
    I wish you peace and understanding during this tough time.
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    I'm so sorry for your situation, but, your dog is missing meals.

    It's time.

    Please let your dog go with peace, grace and dignity.

    You will regret it if you don't.
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    He is on pain meds in case anyone wants to know. And he follows us around and eats people food just fine But we are prepared to do what we have to do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sumacaroni View Post
    He is on pain meds in case anyone wants to know. And he follows us around and eats people food just fine
    What kind of dog food are you feeding him that he wont eat?
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