Your puppy is a pack animal, and he still follows the call of the wild. Your family is your puppy's "pack." Who will be the leader and who will be the follower? There are some ways to set yourself and your family up as "top dog." You want to earn your puppy's respect. That can mean being tough, but always fair. Never hit your dog. Never scold for something your puppy did a while ago. Your puppy will have no idea what the problem is and will think that you are mad for no reason. Only correct your dog when caught in the act. To make yourself look like a leader:
  • Always walk through doors first.
  • When you get home, you and your family should eat in your dog's presence before setting out the puppy food. In packs, the most important dogs always eat first.
  • Also use tone of voice to communicate. A high pitch is exciting and playful. A normal tone is like a bark - direct and commanding. A low growl is a warning. With practice, you can make your puppy understand your mood


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