DH is really hurting my feelings latley and I don't know how to go about it.
I have bad anixety. Its hard for me to even leave the house. I have this huge thing where I cannot call people on the phone. Even my friends will tell you, I can't do it. Its awful. When I do do it, I get myself sick.
Anyway, we are trying to sell our furniture and people have been calling and when they call I say DH its someone about the couch, and he goes well you f'ing answer it!! Its your stupid phone!
I tell DH could you please do it for me? You know I have a problem. And he gets real mad and will either answer, or just loss the phone some where.
Now yes, I know, its my problem and I have to get help for my anxiety but at this point in time I cannot. No health insurance, no money, and I have been trying to get over it myself, and if I could I would, but I can't.
DH is just so mean about it. When I had counselling two years ago DH would sit in per my request so maybe he would understand because when I use to have panic attacks and such he would tell me I am crazy and yell at me and stuff. He told me he understands and stuff, but now this past week its getting really bad where he just does not care at all.
I have just had it. He woke up this morning in a great mood, and I told him I have to finish packing the house tonight and he said you don't have to do it all I am gonna help you to babe, and well, his butt is on the couch watching the Phillies game.
Where is the help? I know this is a common problem in marriages, but it bothers me to no end. I can't pack and clean this whole apartment for this move and then feel like I am getting verbally abused.
Why can't DH just be like okay babe, ill answer because I don't want you to have a panic attack but we really have to work on this. Not, its not my f'ing phone!!! You answer it!! I tell DH it bothers me and he says nothing.
I'm just so bummed about it. What would be a good way to go about talking about this? Writing him a letter?
I have bad anixety. Its hard for me to even leave the house. I have this huge thing where I cannot call people on the phone. Even my friends will tell you, I can't do it. Its awful. When I do do it, I get myself sick.
Anyway, we are trying to sell our furniture and people have been calling and when they call I say DH its someone about the couch, and he goes well you f'ing answer it!! Its your stupid phone!
I tell DH could you please do it for me? You know I have a problem. And he gets real mad and will either answer, or just loss the phone some where.
Now yes, I know, its my problem and I have to get help for my anxiety but at this point in time I cannot. No health insurance, no money, and I have been trying to get over it myself, and if I could I would, but I can't.
DH is just so mean about it. When I had counselling two years ago DH would sit in per my request so maybe he would understand because when I use to have panic attacks and such he would tell me I am crazy and yell at me and stuff. He told me he understands and stuff, but now this past week its getting really bad where he just does not care at all.
I have just had it. He woke up this morning in a great mood, and I told him I have to finish packing the house tonight and he said you don't have to do it all I am gonna help you to babe, and well, his butt is on the couch watching the Phillies game.
Where is the help? I know this is a common problem in marriages, but it bothers me to no end. I can't pack and clean this whole apartment for this move and then feel like I am getting verbally abused.
Why can't DH just be like okay babe, ill answer because I don't want you to have a panic attack but we really have to work on this. Not, its not my f'ing phone!!! You answer it!! I tell DH it bothers me and he says nothing.
I'm just so bummed about it. What would be a good way to go about talking about this? Writing him a letter?