yes more things came out. Not the worst possible things but bad things. We sent the kids to my parents house last night.
What we know now is that
A. Dh needs help. He needs to see a counselor to help him deal with his feelings about his family. People have no idea how they can screw up their kids.
B. We need to move. Our family is more important then our credit score. Our family is more important then the embarrassment of foreclosure.
My family is unique. Our priorities in life are not possessions but people. We are travelers. We are about to undertake some changes that will take us from unique to phenomenal. If we can just get through the muck.
My husband and I have amazing connections but we forgot to keep them in practice. I forgot to share my dreams with him in ways that he could participate.
I told him I Fantasized about selling all of our possessions and joining the peace core. I had never once told him this. I had never once mentioned the peace core in my life to anyone. When I said that, he cried and said HE WOULD LOVE TO DO THAT WITH OUR FAMILY. He said that he could teach the kids math and science and I could teach them all the important things.
He wrote me a letter of apology in which he told me things he admired about me that I never even thought he noticed. He told that when it's just us, that's when he is the happiest.
And so I ask you. NO matter what he did. How would it not be foolish of me to not give him a chance?
When I picked my kids up from my parents today my daughter was upset and said it was hard to say goodbye because she never gets to see nana and papa enough. She is completely unaware of anything going on. She said she wishes we could live next door to nana and papa.
I told her that it would hard to move because she would have to say goodbye to her friends. She would have to go to a new school and get a new bedroom. She said " That's okay, I would be willing to do that because it's worth it".
How can an 8 yr old child be so smart?
What we know now is that
A. Dh needs help. He needs to see a counselor to help him deal with his feelings about his family. People have no idea how they can screw up their kids.
B. We need to move. Our family is more important then our credit score. Our family is more important then the embarrassment of foreclosure.
My family is unique. Our priorities in life are not possessions but people. We are travelers. We are about to undertake some changes that will take us from unique to phenomenal. If we can just get through the muck.
My husband and I have amazing connections but we forgot to keep them in practice. I forgot to share my dreams with him in ways that he could participate.
I told him I Fantasized about selling all of our possessions and joining the peace core. I had never once told him this. I had never once mentioned the peace core in my life to anyone. When I said that, he cried and said HE WOULD LOVE TO DO THAT WITH OUR FAMILY. He said that he could teach the kids math and science and I could teach them all the important things.
He wrote me a letter of apology in which he told me things he admired about me that I never even thought he noticed. He told that when it's just us, that's when he is the happiest.
And so I ask you. NO matter what he did. How would it not be foolish of me to not give him a chance?
When I picked my kids up from my parents today my daughter was upset and said it was hard to say goodbye because she never gets to see nana and papa enough. She is completely unaware of anything going on. She said she wishes we could live next door to nana and papa.
I told her that it would hard to move because she would have to say goodbye to her friends. She would have to go to a new school and get a new bedroom. She said " That's okay, I would be willing to do that because it's worth it".
How can an 8 yr old child be so smart?