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01-06-2011, 11:47 PM #1
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I think I'd rather be poor again....
I am officially seperated. He filed for divorce yesterday.... I finally left in September. Even though my emotions are teeter-tottering, I have been much happier and a ease without him.
thanks for all the support when I first posted the topic....
- 01-07-2011, 01:11 AM #2
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I had one of those, and I left him at the beginning of a new year. I have missed the dual income at times, but I have never EVER regretted my decision to leave. Some abuse is not worth taking at any price, and sometimes just having peace in your soul is worth a king's ransom. "Poor" can define your financial situation without necessarily defining your life.DH aka Mad Hen
March no-spend: 15/15 2012 LAPAW: 8.2/15 2013 Get-Thee-To-The-Gym Challenge: 6/52
Monthly budget total: $1400 - Amt expended: 735.05 = Avail balance: $664.95
Total debt (with mortgage, HELOC, and cc's): Jan 2013: ??? (Jan 2012: $285,105) (Jan 2011: $292,750) (2496 days until retirement)
11/12/13 Challenge: PAY OFF ALL CC's!!
Every time you spend money, you're casting a vote for the kind of world you want. Anna Lappe
01-07-2011, 06:12 AM #3
Good for you! I got divorced last year, one of the best things I've ever done for myself. We're still friends, but sometimes you have to cut your losses and move on.
I miss having a partner. We were both high earners, and I miss having an almost paid off house, and a fat bank account, but what good is all of that without companionship? I'm in a much better place now.
I know it's a hard step to take, but you'll be better for it. Hugs to you.
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