It's our anniversary and he's on the couch.

[Debt Ninjette]

We are going in for an assessment on Friday morning. There is a great mental health place here and it's income based; I think we will pay nothing or almost nothing.

I stumbled onto the concept of Adult ADD, and to say that a light bulb went on would be the understatement of the century. I KNOW, after all my voracious reading, that I have it, no doubt about it. I believe my husband does, too. A friend was recently diagnosed, and if it wasn't for her, I would never have learned anything about it. ADD has destroyed many, many marriages, especially if it goes unnoticed and undiagnosed.

We are going in during Walk-In hours, as they're booked up, so please pray for us. We need to get in, get "tested", and meet the right professional.

One thing that has changed since I found out more about this, is I am 100% more tolerant with my DH, because I realized I do the same exasperating things as he does; I just do some of them differently.

Thank you, everyone, for your encouragement before.

[Dixie]

I said a prayer for you and your dh.

[Dancing Lotus]

Best wishes, I hope you get the help you need and are able to fix things.