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    Why would a man that has been married several yrs start accusing his wife of cheating on him? Then send her several sweet text & expect her to send him loving text after every one. He gets mad if she doesn't respond in an hr or so. To me it sounds like he was cheating and had a blow to his ego when she broke it off or made it clear it wasn't what he thought it was.

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    That would be my first thoughts too.
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    Yep he is acting guilty.

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    Unanimous.

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    Cheating or at least thoughts of it. Yep.

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    Cause he's a putz.

    And possibly cheating or thinking of it... OR someone hinted that she was cheating and he half believes it, cause, well, he's a putz.
    If you could kick in the pants the person responsible for your problems, you wouldn't be able to sit for a month.

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    Alternative theory:

    He wants out, and is attempting to create a situation where he can blame the wife for ending it. (Kinda like my ex did)
    If you could kick in the pants the person responsible for your problems, you wouldn't be able to sit for a month.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Greebo View Post
    Alternative theory:

    He wants out, and is attempting to create a situation where he can blame the wife for ending it. (Kinda like my ex did)
    I'm going with this one. I'd start preparing for a bomb.
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    It sounds like he is setting the groundwork for something.

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    When I put this behavior together with what you said about him in your 'I feel numb' thread, I agree with others that something has happened, and/or something is coming.

    I would straight out ask him about the new 'him' lately.
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    I agree 100%. Something HAS happened or something WILL happen. Brace yourself for a bomb.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cab54 View Post
    When I put this behavior together with what you said about him in your 'I feel numb' thread, I agree with others that something has happened, and/or something is coming.

    I would straight out ask him about the new 'him' lately.
    I did not want to say it, but I saw the same thing in the "I feel numb" thread. My very first thought was an affair. Was hoping I was wrong about that, but how that it's been brought I think it warrants investigation.

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    Um, judging by the last post in your numb thread, you seem to have left out some relevant details.

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    Just the title of your thread had me answering "who knows?" before I even read the posts. Definitely displaced energy!!

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